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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We 'switched' partners but weren't supposed to have sex and I did! Now my fiance can't trust me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - ok, me and my fiancee of 2 yrs. had a wild and crazy night w/his best friend and his girl. well we were switchin partners but the deal was no sex. me and his bf didn't really stick to that. it wasn't much but i feel awful and can't beleive it ...

Problems with his ex-wife, I'm not allowed to see my step-daughter and our marriage is falling apart.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I have been married for almost 2 years and have never met my 15 year old stepdaughter. Her mother won't allow it. My current husband's visitation has been reduced, by his ex, to daytime visits every other weekend as his daughter is not allowed in ...

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore and she doesn't want to talk about it, how do I solve this issue with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - I am a 28 year old man who has been in a relationship with another 28 year old woman for 18 months living together for 1 year. Our relationship is pretty good except for the lack of sex. We both love each other very much. At first she wanted it al...

It's both your faults!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - Okay, so I've dated a lot (no sex as of yet, not that that has anything to do with this article lol). But I just want to clear this one up. If there is a break-up, 9 times out of 10 its BOTH YOUR FAULTS! The one time out of ten, someone cheated on ...

My boyfriend doesn't look anything like he described!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship and i just received a photo. My boyfriend doesn't look anything like he described, its not that he doesn't look how he claimed to look, its that he lied about it I'm concerned. If he could lie ab...

I don't want to waste my time chasing after something that'll never be! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I am 18 and my boyfriend is 22. I really like him but the problem is that i am not sure he is faithful! I have been told that he has another gf who is alot like me back at his home and i am very insecure about this.We have been together for six ...

How am I meant to stop thinking about her like this when she's my best friend and I see her all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I like my best friend a lot and it's really driving me mad. I keep thinking about telling her but it's pretty pointless since I'm not her type at all. But then I keep thinking 'what if...', it plays on my mind a lot and I really need to stop ...

Am I making him feel inadequate? Or is it something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Hi, long story short: me and him - 3 year relationship. Love(ed) each other to bits, truly. Very passionate, but regular rows mainly due to his weed habit and mood swings. Him very "I'll show you" thru his actions eg, after a big row he went off and ...

I hate it when he pushes my head when I'm doing oral-how do I get him to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - a couple days ago i gave my boyfriend the first bj i have ever given. but he kept pushing my head down. and it's getting on my nerves. what can i do to get him to stop?...

Hasn't he got it in him to tell me it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - hi there, i feel like im going mad. i had up until a couple of days ago what i thought was a normal relationship with my partner and then the other day he walked out. last night he came home and told me that he was leaving me and going back to his ...

I'm sleeping with my ex again, does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke about a year ago we both had got into new relationships, and then both of us ended single again at the same time. We agreed to have a sexual relationship with each other with no strings attached, but I didn't have any time to ...

He's grieving over a jet plane, don't know if we will get back again....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I am in a desperate situation and need advice. My long distance boyfriend has given me an ultimatum. He moved a long way away after being with me for a year and we have been apart for 9 months. During that time I have only been able to see him ...

Is it wrong of me to want some answers as to why he chats with other girls on his MSN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - OK, here's the scenario. I've posted a question before about 2 weeks ago about how I think my partner is cheating on me, to which I got some good replies. My question now is connected to this, but its been kind of bothering me. My b/f and I have b...

He still denys the internet chatting even though I've seen the emails with my own eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - please help as i dont know if im making the right choice....i've split up with my boyfriend of 2 years because of lies about money and talking to girls online but i dont know if im making the right decision. he still denys the internet chatting even ...

An advice please onow to cope from people who had casual encounters they later regretted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - OK I feel as though I need to explain myself or apologise before I even start as I dont want people to misjudge me. My bf and I are both models and even though our world is full of superficial people, I pride the fact that neither of us are like ...

We have dated on and off over two years, help me - I am scared of him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Every time I go round to my Boyfriends he always tries to have sex with me - we broke up because he found someone else but we are now back together again and the first time we met he demanded sex again. I also think hes cheating on me as he has a ...

How can I help my 11 yr old get over not having her friend in her life anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I'm feeling so guilty today. Last night my ex and i had a row and he grabbed me and lifted me off the ground. In front of my 13 yr old son. We have NEVER been physical before with each other. I lost my rag and keep swinging for him, and eventually ...

People don't find me sexy any more but I'm still same person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - i m a very good looking female.once there was a time guyz used to think i am very sexy.my voice, my dressing sense n the way i used to carry myself all depicted a lot of sexappeal.the only thing is that i m very chidish too.but now for last some ...

Age Gap!-It is so hard dating him without friendship support

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Okay. I am dating a guy who is 20. I am 15. I know we should not be dating but we are in love. Some are my friends are telling me to leave him but I can't. It is so hard dating him without friendship support. I don't know what to do. I wanna be with ...

I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 May 2008 (?) - Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...

My ex won't stop calling. I want to respond but it hurts too much! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - My ex is moving across country for a job. He said he just wants to be friends---so I am trying to honor that request. No email, text, call, etc. He keeps doing all of that and doesn't understand that it hurts me too much to keep in contact during ...

I lied to my ex about my past and feel awful, am I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Ok, a few hours ago, I posted about feeling awful because I lied to my ex and now I lost him. I had lied several times concerning my past. The thing is he was very jealous about it. For instance, if a song by a band that one of my ex crushes liked...

My girlfriend's past bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - I have a problem with my GF's past! I am 24 years old and have slept with about 10 people, she is 20 and has slept with 12 people before me! Should this be bothering me so much, is that alot? She told me that everyone she has slept with wasnt...

His confession about his feelings for me have created a problem for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - One of my parent’s closest friends (we’ll call him ‘X’)and I enjoy a mutual hobby which has the blessing of his wife and my boyfriend since neither of them enjoy this hobby. (Additionally, my ex-boyfriend was their son. I severed all contact with ...

Should he have stayed, under any condition?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was the one who gave me my first kiss. He lived in the neighborhood and hung out with my brother. He was the first boy that kissed me. Years later I saw him out and that was that. Then, about 2 years ago I got sick. I told him to ...