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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Everything about my boyfriend annoys me, but I still really care about him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and lately it seems like everything he does annoys me. I get annoyed by the way he drives, when he doesn't listen to me, when he lies to me, and even when we are cuddling he annoys me. I really like ...

My boyfriend broke up with me because another guy has a crush on me. It isnt like the feelings are reciprocated! Why did he break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My BF broke up with me and everything is so unfair, I didn't do anything!!! A couple of years ago I met this obnoxious guy, he had a crush on me, but he also had a crush on several more girls. Then i met my BF and we started dating. My BF was...

My husband always drops me if he gets an offer to go out with his friends. Why wont he put me first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - i went away for a few days to my parents with the baby.My husband went out every night and behaved liked a bachelor-no problem with that .we talked each day and he said he missed us so much.I came back early and he said he was spending the night ...

I'm questioning everything I feel, for all these four men that have played significant roles in my love life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - This is something of a convoluted problem but I need some advice on how to deal with it.. I had a pretty strict upbringing (A lot was expected of me) and my parents encouraged me to marry a much older guy that I didn't really have a lot in common ...

Just found out my boyfriend has kids, after he told me he didn't! Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - I just found out after six months of dating my boyfriend that he has kids. He told me he didn't should I dump him ? I have not talked to him for 3 days and he keeps calling and leaving messages about how sorry he is. Thanks for any input someone can ...

My family disapproves of my husband because of his race, now they want to come see our new baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My family does not approve of my husband because he is another race. I married him anyways because I love him and he loves me. I just had a baby in April and now my family decides they want to talk to me and see the baby. I have said no because I am ...

I can't figure out if I want a relationship with this new man or my husband. Should I tell my husband and his wife to get it all on the table?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - I am married woman in a relationship with a married man for a year. We both have children and are in very unhappy marriages. It was very passionate and "forever" in the beginning. Things have waned a bit, so now we are trying to be friends....

Did I allow myself to be put in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - Ok so i was talkin to this guy and we were like almost the same. there was definitley a connection between us. and when we were around each other we got along great. i dont think that their was ever a dull moment. we went out and stuff but we were ...

We're broken up yet still act as a couple...and I can't take this uncertainty anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up since March. We still act as if we are a couple. We talk everyday, hang out, speak on the phone, say I love you and still are 100%faithful to one another. However, there has been alot of ups and downs and uncertai...

I found explicit text messages on my bf's phone, and it's eating away at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - I recently went through my boyfriend's cell phone after an argument, and found some very detailed explicit sex messages indicating some oral sex acts he performed on her and how she wanted to do certain sexual things to him again. He does not know ...

All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. ...

My boyfriend is insecure about me being smarter than him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years and I love him more than anything. I would consider him my best friend because I feel completely comfortable with him. I can tell him anything and know that my secrets are safe. We're very ...

My boyfriend is in the army and I hate it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My bf has been in the army for just over two years now and I hate it. I really didn't want him to join up in the first place but I stuck by him and his decision. I have never been overly happy that he is in the army and it is just something I have ...

I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - Hi I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another. She does not know that I am aware of this relationship as one of her friends told me and says she would leave in an instant for him. Our relationship has been rocky but good in places. We have ...

Does he secretly want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - My question is, does my ex secretly want me back? My ex and I had a very close relationship off and on for about 5 years. At one point we were living together and engaged but the relationship ended on account of some growing up and dealing with ...

Please help me, does she deserve another chance? Do I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - Hi,Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a month and a half. There were many reasons for me to be somewhat untrusting of her because she has cheated on me twice. But the first time it happened i had no proof but i had A witness. She said that ...

I'm not in love with my husband, what should I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - I'm not in love with my husband and want to leave but don't know how. He has become a perfect father and husband but I am not in love. We've known each other for 12 years and have been married for almost 10 years. Right from the start, he was in ...

I want to believe him but I have doubts about his relationship with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I am having an incredibly hard time figuring out what to do about my bf and his ex. They are best friends, and although I love that, I have been having second thoughts. I recently asked him if he wasn't dating anyone and if ex would have hi...

Why cant I trust the women I love? Does every man go through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - I have a problem , I cant seem to get this feeling of doubt out of my head with the women I love. I feel one day that she will never part with me, and the next just by a change of tone in her voice sends me thinking I have to look for some one new? ...