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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is he acting so different? I don't like the way this feels, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My bf and i are going to have our 5 year anniversary next month. He pretty much lived in my room at school this year and we slept together every night. We are very close, best friends, great sex, etc. We just returned from an awesom vacation but ...

Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke ...

I don't know where to go from here, should I try to work it out with him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a rough time and no matter how much i tried to discuss it with him or how i was feeling he never seemed to want to talk, he just said i was being stupid. i began to think i was for a while and then one day ...

I want to make this work, I'm ready for the commitment, but he's seems to be backing away! PS His mother is living with him now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Me and my military boyfriend have been together for a year. I am ready to move in together and to get engaged and make a commitment in our relationship. I have a 2 year old little girl and he has a 4 year old son both from previous marriages. He ...

I need help, my mother and grandmother are homophobic, and I am bisexual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Im 13 and about to be 14 in a few weeks. I have had thoughts about sex and just really started talking to my mother about it. She thinks that because I'm 13 i shouldn't be thinking about sex. Also i am bisexual and my mother is homophobic and always ...

My son is on drugs...does love and patience really work or do I let him hit rock bottom???

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I am heartsick. My teen son has always been a gentle, quiet, bright yet strong and determined young man, with high marks and good goals, for his future. We had him in sports--soccer, snowboarding and golf. He always love electronics with a a ...

I've been with my bf for 3 years, then HE shows up again! I don't know a way out of this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore with my life. I have a boyfriend we're 3 years together, I love him I swear is true but in my life show up the other one...He is so cold, without emocions but I fell in love with him. And i betrayed my boyfrien...

His high sex drive is making me feel under pressure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm very happy with my boyfriend but there is one thing that always causes problems between us- his sex drive is a lot higher than mine and i feel as though it is coming between us. my boyfriend of 2 years is lovely, hes thoughtful, cari...

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

Her ex-boyfriend still has some hold. How do I break that hold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend seems to still have some hold over her, even after over a year now. He calls her about once a week and while she says she "hates when he calls", she does return his calls. She will text reply to him when we're sitting in ...

When is what appears to be "something" actually "nothing"??? Am I in denial, blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Found this text from a chat log on my PC: "Hi Sexy Man!!!!!!!!!!! Are we still on for Memorial Day weekend?" At first I thought it was my daughter to her new boyfriend (since she shares my PC) and so I asked her if he was coming down for that we...

I just want things to be good between us! I broke her trust, she was kissed by another guy...I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have recently had problems. She doesn't know for sure if she is in love with me. And I broke her trust on something, and so she is mad at me. But we are trying to sort things out. She has a crush on some guy. That's fine, I m...

Should I confront these girls who I thought were my best friends about talking about me on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) - i need some help two girls who i thought were my best friends i heard them talking behind my back. It wasn't exactly private as they were talking about me on facebook and everything. i dont know what i should do. should i confront them or pretend ...

When should I tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? He doesn't know about this previous relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - When is the best timing to tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? I had a short duration (3 months)of a long-distance marriage which was a disaster. My ex was impotent at the time of marriage so this marriage...

Falling out of love with my boyfriend! Should I try again or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got re...

Why can't I make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I've never had much luck when it comes to keeping friends, and i kow it's all my own doing. But if i knew exactly what i was doing wrong, i would change, but i don't. Even though i have quite alott of mates, nobody seems to get close or want to...

I want to find my niece to apologize. I have no expectations, only hope. She was disowned by my sister 11 years ago, and I regret not helping her then.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, im not sure this is the type of relationship this site caters for but im hoping for some outside advice. My sister and myself were raised strict roman catholic, we both married into catholic families and raised our own fami...

What is REALLY best for us?? Can I tell him and him still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I am having a hard time coping with the fact that I cheated on my boyfriend. Him and I have been together for 2 years now. I honestly do love him. I could never ask for anyone better than he is. Of course, he has his flaws just like everyone el...

How can I break my Father's heart by telling him that my Mom is cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - HI all, This question is not directly involving me, but even though I can not control it, I reap the consequences of the problem. All of my life, I have believed that I had the "perfect homelife." My parents always told my siblings and I th...

I feel bad about it, as I denied all the rumors to my ex as well as my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I'll try and keep this short! Basically i have known 'R' for over 5 years now, as a friend. We had kissed at a party years ago, which was no big deal. We have always got on very well, and meet up every once in a while to catch up. Anyway, i ...

We haven't seen each other or talked since he texted me saying, 'We need to talk!' What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been on and of so much in the last year but recently have been on for 2 monts which has been lovely weve spent loads of time together and had a reali laugh but i randomyl got a text last week saynig we need to talk we both want ...

Should I cool off for a while and not make an effort to see what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been to this site before for advice and go some really good answers, so I am back! I have been seeing my bf for about 18 months now. When we first started out he was so into the realtionship. He bought me flowers, send random cards say...

I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't ...

He called another woman his "sex toy," now he is repentant and swears he hasn't cheated physically. Your advice, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - me and this guy have been dating on and off for like 5 years i should also probally state there is a huge age differance between us about eighteen years i am in my thirtys .i recently found a message where he is calling another women baby and his ...

My fiancée is against fellatio. I've never received one in my life, and I crave for one!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hey. I've been with my fiance currently for just over 1 year. The only problem i'm having with her, is that she won't give blowjobs. I've never had a blowjob in my life.. And it drives me mad, i crave one! I've talked to her about it, and she ...

He said he wanted a relationship with me, it turned out after we broke up that he already had a girlfriend! Now he wants us to remain friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - A guy said he wanted a relationship with me and was looking at a family and kids etc then somewhere along the line he decided to focus on sex- we never slept together since it felt like he was putting too much pressure. Went like this for a while. ...

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was ...

How do I help my bf who is rapidly gaining weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) - My wonderful boyfriend has gained a lot of weight over the course of a year or so (an extra 50 lbs). I find his family is quite worried about him and so am I. Now he gets hungry late at night but tonight he said he would resist eating a hamburg...

Why is this happening to me? Why is my girlfriend this way???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - (background info)Me and my girlfriend met back in Sep of 07. We worked in the same town and I would often see her at her job. I fell in love with her smile and how she always made me laugh. She said she was talking to someone and that she was not ...

I am trying to help her fix the problem but she is not cooperative...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of a little less than 2 months had cheated on me with a number of different people. It has happened 3 times, and only once was she sober. I am trying to help her fix the problem and get through this myself, but she won't talk to me ...

I don't know how to begin to move on. He was abusive but I can only remember the good side of him, that draws me back to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 235 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My now ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for almost two years. I just broke up with him yesterday because his verbal abuse reached a new low. We've had an incredibly tumultuous and disastrous relationship and after trying to break up with him for ...