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writes:my younger sister slept with my boyfriend. he admitted it to me, she still hasn't, well she did but in a round about way but then quickly took it back when i asked her did she do it rather then " i know you did it, why?". when she found out he confessed to me, she called him screaming an dyelling while i was right there, i remained quiet. i spoke to my mother about it, she is very much in denial( well she will not admit it to me) they are closer then me and my mother are because she raised her, while i stayed with my grandparents so that my parents could finish school at a young age. we both have kid(s), ( i have one, she has 2) and she was pregnant with the 2nd child when it happened. he said he did it out of anger from me cheating on him, which i did,i was very vulnerable at the time because he had been cheating on me repeatedly, and when he got drunk he would come home telling me about it. so time came along, i met someone, which he knew from a few other people, and it happened. me and her fell out because i tried to warn my little sister about her new neighbors that were bad news and she insisted that they were her friends(shortly after the argument, they fell out)so being that i was not getting along with neither ine of them, he decided to go and seek revenge on me( i know it was so much that he was hurt because he got a dose of his medicine). they slept together more then 6 times, she gave him oral sex, my neice was being exposed to the man she was taught to call uncle, he moved in with her and they both were willing to move out of town to be together, when he broke to her that he was still in love with me and he wanted to be back with me. so we got back together, shortly after he admitted it. i had heard many many rumors but didnt believe that no matter how mad she was at me she would do this.she has not came to apologize, when they see each other, she curses him out( he promised to never tell no matter what), the last time they seen each other she told him she misses my friendship, and wants her sister back. i've made arrangements to get my neice so that our kids can still be in each others lives. that worked out. the bad part about it is that not only my sister but my mother truly knows the truth but she chooses to try and make me believe different, my cousin knew and was fine with it, also the same cousin almost slept with him during this same time period. i feel stupid as ever because i cut my sister off, but i'm still with him, i can't find the strength, tho i am very pretty and all. he has always been a good provider and before this was a good boyfriend, my whole family felt the same way. i wanted to tear my sisters head off but i relaxed and thought about it, now i just say forget her, i feel that even though he didnt have that much love for me she should have, is that the right attitude to have? oh by the way, yes he has cheated on me a lot, he has a baby on the way that he made during the sister time also,though we were broke up, all this happened in the 1st few months of our break up. i need to mend my heart, she wont admit it but i need closure, what to do? my heart is burning everyday being in his face, her not coming to me as a woman and apaologizing, my cousins in my face not knowing i know the low down of her, what to do?[Moderator's note. Please don't use majuscules again in your postings, we can't allow caps blocks.]
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reader, kdc  +, writes (5 June 2008):
im doing the same my husband cheated with my sister
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Honey the first thing you need to do is to drop this so called boyfriend. He is not good for you. If you are pretty then there is no need to be with him as in time you will find someone who will appreciate you and not want to go sleep with relatives. Yoy need to make amends with your sister. Has this ever happened before? The two of you need to find self esteem. You need it to know that you are special and she needs it to find a man of her own and to get out of your shadow. Remember blood is thicker than water and if slept with her while she was pregnant with another man's baby, well that says alot.
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