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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I effectively ignore his efforts to hurt me, as to not let my self esteem get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5823 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Ok, here's the thing. My ex broke up with me a week ago. He was very controlling and hurtful, during most of the relationship, although it probably was more of my fault as I lied. But he intimidated me, as he's always been so aggressive, and he some...

My husband is unaffectionate and cold, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - we have been married for 2 years. before we got married, it took me a while to accept my partner as the one. he now seems to be very bitter about the rough time i gave him. before we got married, he used to be this nice guy but nowadys he is very ...

I broke up and now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I need help ! I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.. he was such a great person but things between me and his mom went wrong and i couldnt take it anymore.. He kept begging for me back but I just couldn't stand his mom and I kept refusing.. ...

How do I prove to my Ex that were still ment to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - How do i prove to her that we shoudl get back together?! Me and my ex girlfriend had a long bumpy road but we always made it through, with love. We are now broken up but we both still have feelings for eachother and are still seeing eachother almost ...

I feel like I'm being used, whenever I'm around my ex he wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - hey me and my bf are split up now but we are still friends which i like but theres a prob... whenever we are around each other he always wants sex and i dont want to because i feel like im being use,am i?? i always so no for a while but th...

Please, somebody put my mind to rest! I found out my ex was using heroin, died, now I'm paranoid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys, this sounds dreadful, but i have to share my worry with somebody. I just found out that my ex died of a suspected heroin o'd, and my emotions are mixed since i found out what it was. I'm totally shocked. Part of me thinks i can't believe ...

She's expecting our child, and left me, I want to be involved with my new baby, but how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - Can any body give me some advice on how to cope and manage only seeing my baby 1 day a week. My ex girlfriend has left me and is expecting our first baby. Basically i have been left out of everything, the ultrasound, midwife you name it i have not ...

He doesn't want a girlfriend right now, but wants me in his life! Should I stop seeing him altogether? I do love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I am divorced. I started sleeping with a co-worker. He and I are really great friends. He tells me all the time that I am his best friend. We do so much together. He does not want a girl friend. I understand that, I myself am getting out of a ...

I'm scared my unreliable boyfriend will break up with me again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months, is extremly unreliable. he was supposed to cme to my house after school one day but we fell out becoz he didnt come. We ended up splitting up becoz he said all we do is argue and he's un happy and he cant see it going an...

We split up but can't seem to leave each other alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I am in yet another dilemma. me and my bf split about a week ago now. I went over to his last night for the swapping back of personal items, as you do. However, when i got there we were talking for a while then we ended up sleeping with ea...

Is there a way to win back my cousin's friendship and respect? He found out I'm in a relationship with another cousin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Can anyone help? I have had a flirty relationship with my 1st cousin since we were kids, an i really think a lot of him an enjoy his company. We have often joked that if he wasn't my cousin then we might be together as a couple, because thats ho...

I thought he wanted me back, but he seems to be with this married woman. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner 14 years he is 44 I am 57. we lived together for 9 years then went through problems and decided to part. he got his own place and I stayed in mine. after a month or so we decided that we couldnt live with eachother or ...

My girlfriend told me to "grow a pair fo balls". She is leaps ahead of me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years and lived with her for 6 of those years. I suffer from depression and am known to cut off from the world and lately she has been getting on with her university and making friends and I have just been a bit ...

Is he just playing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - well its sort of a long story, theres this guy who i was quite close to a while back, he's suddenly got back in touch 2 days ago texting me and stuff. general convo but askin if i still like him etc nd said that he "loves me, simple as"... but ...

I'm feel like I am living in a lie because I want to be with some one else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I am very troubled. Everyday I pretend to be happy, I feel like I am living a lie. I've been with this man for 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I was 16 when I had my first child and 19 when I had my second. We only knew e/o for 3 months and ...

Do you think he didnt reply to my invite because he doesn't like me like that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Theres this guy who I thought liked me alot. But now I'm not so sure. We both have a college class together, thats how I know him, and he has been helping me with alot of my work (he offered!!!). He is always making excuses to talk to me and see me, ...

I am somewhat confused because if there is a problem living together she might not want marriage or long term commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - I have dated my girlfriend feor 11 years. I am 46 and she is 57. She has 3 adult children. Her 31 year old Daug currently lives with her with a 5 year old. She relocated from New York to Atlanta to help her Daug. I followed one year later and moved ...

Is he lusting after bigger girls? Am I too thin for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I'm 110lbs 5'6 and very thin!!! I'm not anorexic/bulimic just born this way. I don't look sickly either. I've been dating a guy for three 1/2 months. I just saw some of his porn (he doesn't know! Yes! I was wrong for looking) and its mostly of ...

I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I'm hoping you can help! I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm. She's quite inexperienced, she's only had one sexual partner before m...

Why won't he call me, we were so close, its been a month!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Hi I posted my scenario earlier. I recently met a guy about 3 months ago, and we started dating. We got extremely serious within a week, we started living together, eating together, sleeping together, going to school together, going to his friends ...

My BF has anxiety and depression... how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Basically my boyfriend is suffering from anxiety and depression, I have been with him for nearly two years now and i love him, But things are starting to get to me. He blames all our relationship problems on me saying im the moody one, and i never ...

He doesn't answer my messages... should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - i havent seen my boyfriend in a week.he doesnt answer calls or texts or get bk to me when he says he will.is he cheating and should i get rid off him ?...

I think I'm being used.. how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I'm so confused. I have a friend that I was once intimately involved with, however that aspect of our realtionship ended months ago and we still continue to be online friends. We see each other on Messenger everyday but he rarely speaks to me. He ...

First love feelings came back with his email... is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Well i have a little problem. You know that first love you have when your younger and never forget well mine was when i was 15-16 we finished because he moved somewhere else with his parents and decided it wouldnt work... after we split...