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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can I go on with my boyfriend if I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is in love with me. I love him too. But I know there is someone else out there for me. I am beginning to like his team mate who told me he likes me and would like to go out with me. But, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I ...

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having ...

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

I want her back as a partner, not a friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - My fiance' and I were together for 4 years. We have split and come back a few times, but recently she decided that it was time to end it for good. She still wants to be friends, but I still love her and wish her back. Is there anyway that I can ge...

I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...

My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...

Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is v...

My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with ...

My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly ...

He doesn't seem to care if I was abused as a child but I love him with all my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I told my boyfriend i was sexually abused as a child one night when we were both drunk... he was so upset over it i actually saw him cry and i took comfort in getting it off my chest... however sometimes i feel very isolated and upset, and want to ...

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

Why can't I say I love them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it up...

I find my boyfriend so boring

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, hope you are all ok. Well my dilema is, that i am a 41 divorced mum of 2 daughters. I have been seeing a guy for 4 years now, we don't live toghether, due to finances etc. But the thing is, i do love him on some level, and he is...

He started to change and become restrictive. Am I just an awful girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so jealous/upset/dissapointed because of my past. It happened gradually... she knew about some stuff (past crushes, etc) when we started dating. It didn't bother him much then, he just asked me not to give him details, to talk about ...

Can someone help me understand his behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give ...

Things are starting to fade, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and i can't help but feel as if things are starting to fade. Well before I met her i really liked this other girl who is my best female friend aside from my girlfriend. About a month ago I told ...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...

My girfriend broke up with me but still hasn't moved out, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - so i was seeing this girl for a few months, felt we really connected. we moved in way to soon she needed to stay for a bit while she looked for a new place, and eventually we both agreed we enjoyed living together. that was after 2 months, soon i ...

I support my boyfriend financially and also lend his Mum money too now. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I've been supporting my boyfriend financially for three years now, to the point I lend his mom money because she can't manage her own money. I don't want to break up with him because he stuck with me through very difficult times, but when I tell him ...

Major problem, where are we going to live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 243 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I love my husband and he me, but we have one major problem, where we are going to live, it is creating problems for us both as I am going out of my mind what to do. We are both from different countries in Europe, i uk and him Spain. I have b...

We've done nothing but fight for the last few months, should we still go on our anniversary trip to Rome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m ...