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How do I become a caring guy interested in girls?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2009)
A female Nigeria age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I had masturbatd 4 4yrs,bt had stop and i hv noticed dat i now find relationshipt boring, so i find it difficult 2 enter in2 a relatnship even though i had many girl as friend bt i cant love any of dem. So pls wat should i do 2 start lovin girls. and how 2 becom a carin guy.

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A female reader, deirdre Ireland +, writes (9 March 2009):

you need to take your time & find a girl that you really like. message me if you need any more advice

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

satindesire agony auntWell, you'll probably need to first talk to a therapist if you want a sex change. Being female, it's very difficult to become a guy without first living as your chosen gender for an entire year. After that you'll have to get a therapist to approve your sex change operation with a sexologist. It's expensive and time consuming, and will take a very long time to 'pass' as male.

As for caring about women, that comes when you meet the right girl. Masturbation usually doesn't affect relationships and if it does affect YOUR relationships, you need to talk to a counselor.

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A male reader, Cowboy254 United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

I honestly think you need to find the right person that's all I've always stayed out of the dating game until a month ago when I had this amazing girl come into my life and I love her so dearly but I never felt that I could love anyone then my girl proved me wrong and we have somthing good going you just need to find the right person who basically makes you feel that you want to me a better person someone who will care about you but I'd try talking to a few friends and maybe see if they can invite you to a party or something and just be yourself and talk to people and find that someone. I hope I might have been able to help you but just hang in there

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