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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i've dated this guy for two months, and from the beginning he had trouble either getting an erection or maintaining. and he's in his 20s!now, the only time i noticed he didn't have a problem getting hard or ejaculating was when i just gave him oral and we didn't do it because i had my period. it was like no problem! i've tried to be comforting and tell him 'don't worry, just tell me what's troubling you etc'..well, it's a rotating excuse with him 'i'm tired/stressful day at work/too much exertion at the gym' but after 15+ times sleeping together, the excuses get old, especially since i don't think their all true.My question is, does that mean there is something i'm doing wrong? does he really not want to have sex with me subconsciously? what can i do to fix this? i feel like i've tried very extended foreplay, oral and hand-jobs til i'm aching, telling him he doing great, don't worry about it, it's ok, and trying whatever he wants me to do sexually, but to no avail!he mentioned i make him laugh a lot and that can throw him off..is that the case?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 I think you are worrying about this in the wrong way, I think that this is stress related because he actually likes you! Some guys can have this problem and it's usually psychological, get him to speak to his doctor about it and take it from there.
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