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writes:Hi, last post was rejected, too explicit :(I just need peoples opinions. I have always hated my sister (I am 34 she is 30) I am divorced 2 kids, she is single 1 kid and I have been turned on by incest for the past month or so. anyways, to cut a long story short, I had a few drinks, made an excuse to go to her house and had sex with her. Now I need help I think, I havent spoke to her since but I think because it is illegal and wrong is what turned me on so much. Anyone done similar stuff or want to comment, answers will be much appreciated. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): I think if there your blood, then it shouldn't be done. I think you should still have a sister brother relationship with her. You both have been single for a while and obviously she has a little to mush lust. Leave a e-mail saying what happened was just a timething and that you don't want that kind of relationship other than the one that you had before it happened. I say go and meet some gils and get your self off the subject of your sister.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): I think you should call your sister and ask her how she feels about what happened. Ask her if she wants to have that kind of relationship with you. Yes, it is illegal, except in France and some other countries. But if it is what you both want, then you are consenting adults and it's your own business. It's like having a friend with benefits, in this case, it's a sibling with benefits. Besides, it's probably just a temporary situation until she can find another man. So as long as she wants to have that kind of relationship with you, and you enjoy the sex, I say go for it. If you talk to her, be sure and post back here to tell us what she said so that we can continue to advise you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Right and wrong cannot apply to your situation. "Incest" is a label formalized by common society to categorize specific groups of people, then through that same society, brand it a wrong act based on a number of factors. These factors include but are not limited to: scientific misinformation, religion, conservative tradition and herded mentality.You have the illegal part correct, but something that is illegal is not necessarily morally wrong. What is morally wrong also may not necessarily be ethically wrong. Ultimately, you choose how to live your personal life, so long as it does not harm anyone while you live it.
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reader, douggo +, writes (11 March 2009):
douggo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe was a willing participant, remember i was drunk not her. I know that is no excuse at all
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reader, douggo +, writes (11 March 2009):
douggo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe was a willing participant, and remember I was drunk... not her.
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reader, twilightdiamond +, writes (11 March 2009):
 wow. I thought this stuff only happening in dark erotic web fiction.Incest isn't exactly looked upon kindly in society. But you already know that, so I'm not sure why you've turned to Dearcupid. Anyway, none of us can tell you what to do. We don't know you, or your sister. So do what YOU think is right. No matter what the rest of the world thinks. take a look at this question, it might intrest you that these agony aunts feel this way:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-are-having-a-baby-through-incest-.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): As your sister seems to be a willing party in this, sounds like you deserve eachother. Does she think it's wrong also? At least you're acknowledging that what you did was wrong - just leave it - don't do it again.
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Do you think she thinks you raped her? Or was she a willing participant?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 I best not comment(can anyone else hear duelling banjos?)
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