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writes:I am sure my b/f still fancies me yet we have not had sex for nearly a year. He said I should let him know when I want him to stay over. I want him to take me out and make it special.It was his birthday last week and I bought concert tickets. He let me down and I went alone as I knew some people there. I burst into tears there - hate being on my own.I have been asking for our relationship to move on e.g meet his family etc but he is not making an effort. I have know himn for over 20 years and we have a 6 year old yet me makes me feel awful. i am an attractive indepeendent mixed race women yet he makes me feel he is ashamed of me.Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): I think you want him to change but he obviously is not going to and why should you beg him to be nice to you. I cannot see that this man brings one bit of happiness and support into your life. By getting rid of him what exactly would you be missing? At least it would not be mental torture waiting, hoping that he will be the man he should be.... and being let down. His behaviour is not acceptable. Stop contacting him and try and meet someone else.
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