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writes:I'm 19 and in a new-ish relationship.We're getting more serious and i really like him a lot, so want to go further sexually with him. I'd like some advice on what to do with my pubic hair.What do you guys prefer? I am afraid to ask him, because i am a shy person and don't like talking about very personal things, but also because i feel stupid as i am 19 and still don't know what to do with it, i don't want to seem too inexperienced. I'd really appreciate men's advice on whether they like hair? no hair? Thanks.
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reader, Randya2  +, writes (24 May 2009):
Unshaved but trimmed
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reader, Jay7777 +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Most guy's like it shaved, some don't mind a little hair but not many people like it unshaven. Most of the guys I've talked to about it only aren't bothered about it being unshaven like the person so much that they don't really notice anything they don't like about them.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Man oh man we sure do spend a lot time on this question...
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reader, Amy124 +, writes (13 April 2009):
 All men differ to be honest, but i doubt he would have a serious problem with it if it wasn't the way he prefers! So relax, maybe leave it as it is for a while, and eventually, either he will say he prefers it shaved or hairy, or you will hopefully feel more relaxed so that you can ask him.One way i tested it in the past - leave it 'natural' (don't shave), see how things go, and then shave it all away and see what he says. He'll either say "ooh, it's really sexy like this", so you know he prefers it shaved, or he'll say "ahh i liked it how it was", so you can just grow it back =)Another tip - it's better to shave it if he wants to use his mouth down there, because no one wants hairs in their mouth accidentally! Or shave if you're hoping he'll do it.=P
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks:)
however sex is not the part im worrying about, i am ready to go further, but answering to ErinPatterson, 'grooming myself how i usually would'...i don't.
that's what i'm worried about, as i have never known what to do with it.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 April 2009):
 I like my girls educated! So more importantly than a bit of hair down there read this before you decide to have sex: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): Every guy is different but I would say most men would say no hair
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reader, ErinPatterson +, writes (5 April 2009):
 Omg..you are so young.I would worry about the taking precautions (birth control)and using protection as far as well "the talk" kind of..of maybe if he has been with anyone in the past..like lightly question..or well you know if he likes you he will wait..if you feel you are ready well that is up to you but as far as the pubic hair goes..groom yourself the way you normally would. I think you should be more concerned with the other stuff first though..I mean when I decided to sleep with my boyfriend I groomed myself the way I normally would..once however..it was unexpected encounter and well I had not shaved my legs that morning and too be honest in teh heat of te moment its kind of a funny thing..but you def want your first encounter with your boyfriend to be well ya know not embarrassing..so..just groom as usual..lol..
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