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writes:Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda pulled back and was really freaked out about the whole thing...We never talked about it when we finished the movie, and I was really awkward afterwards, I could see it in her face she was hurt when I pulled back... I saw a tear but I acted like I didn't see it.The thing is I'm not ready for that yet, I'm not that comfortable with my body, that's one of the reasons, and I don't want to get into the whole sex thing even though I want it.Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (5 April 2009):
 It doesn't mean she wants sex, she could just want some "fun".
If you're not ready, make sure you let her know. There's nothing wrong with making out for a while, that's what I did. If she is ready and you're not, she should understand and wait for you. But dn't feel pressured just because she's ready.
But I would suggest talking to her about it and asking what she wanted from it. If not, it could build up and ruin the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): From what you say her reaction was probably so she wanted more to happen than what did. I admire you for wanting to wait on sex. you are young and have plenty of time for that later on. you should ask her to explain what you saw on her face. And talk about that.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 April 2009):
No it does not mean sex at all.
She just wanted to do something to please you and thought that you may be ready to start working towards your first hand job.
Talk to her about it and tell her that you really like her and you weren't rejecting her, but you are just not ready for anything more than kissing just yet.
Good Luck!! xx
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