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About to have my period, but still want to make HIM happy

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Question - (30 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A female Ireland age 18-21, *orriedMel writes:

This is going to sound weird. But im supposed to be going to my boyfriends tomorrow for the weekend. And i was not expecting my period until the 11th...So i was wonderin..

1. What ways can i please my boyfriend, while im on my period?

2. (for guys) Can guys still get alot of enjoyment out of just recieving.

(eg) Will he still enjoy himself, even if he isnt able to have sex, (as he doesnt like the whole period thing, wimp) Please. Help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

there are lots of things u can do during your period.

Mayb you could seduce him...strip tease etc.

also, anal is an option, as it doesnt involve him getting blood on his penis. however, make sure u use a condom. sex is also possible, the condom would stop him getting dirty.

is there really anything wrong with just having a chilled out weekend? mayb dvds and a takeaway, and go out one of the nights?

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (1 May 2009):

Ginalolabridga agony auntOral is your option if your not comfortable having sex with your period and it is not the end of the world not to have sex one weekend now is it?

I am sure he will be content on you giving him oral that way he is still being pleasured.

Gina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

Good gosh, I've never had a problem with her having her period. As long as she's been OK with putting a towel down, then go for it. What, he doesn't like to wash afterward??

The question is, what can he do for you!

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A female reader, cessence12 United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

Men enjoy being pleased well atleast the men I know, oral sex usually is atthe top of thier list of pleasure, if not he'll just have to wait and get over it. After all whats 5-7 days.

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A female reader, Curiosity18  United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

Curiosity18  agony auntDef! My boyfriend enjoys it when i'm on my period, b/c its "all about him". You can pleasure him to the fullest. Look online for different tricks and tech. on how to super please him during oral. Give him the best oral hes ever had! Although my boyfriend doesn't mind me being on my period, but..sometimes it can get really difficult, so usually i just give him head. Also..if he doesn't like the mess, and its possible...you can always have sex in the shower! Its clean, you don't bleed as much...and it feels good!

Goodluck! Maybe try talking to him about the whole period thing, it might be kinda fun and experimental for him. My boyfriend has never done before, until he done it with me. Its lubricated, it feels extra nice to me...b/c your vagina is so sensative. Its the best time to have sex!

We usually get a towel or some old sheets and put it under me, and wipes are ALWAYS good! b/c you want to wipe up the mess.

and i swear-theres never a mess! theres no blood on the towel, and none on me. Theres some on the guy! [[but thats what the wipes are for]] i get really surprised, considering i have a very heavy flow.

If you feel like getting a towel and getting wipes out are kinda mood changing..

Put the wipes in ur purse, and maybe get a hand towel from home, so when you THINK you are about to have sex in the next 10minutes or so, go to the bathroom, throw your product away, and go to his room, and lay down. When things get hot and heavy, lean over, dig in ur purse, and layout the hand towel...and your ready!

he can also use a condom, and he'll STILL be clean!

[[and u won't need wipes!]]

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