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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. we have struggled with his impotence problem from the very start of our relationship. i want us to have that bond sexually. 95% of the time the sex is not very good. i do what i can to excite him in bed. i have asked him several times to pleasure me "down there" he won't even consider it though. so i feel cheated in bed. i am starting to lose interest in sex now. i am completely in love with him though. what can i say and do to make him realize that i want more? Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 So, from what you it is not just impotence, he is simply not willing to try.
Impotence doesn't stop a guy from performing oral sex. Being, well, an asshole does that.
It seems to me that is is all coming from one direction. You love him, but what do you love about him?
Lets reverse the question for you. Say you expected to be please "down there" but never gave oral sex yourself, what would this say about you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the feedback. Yes, i do go down on him but he won't do anything for me in exchange. that is part of the problem. he won't take medicine because it's too expensive. so i guess i will just learn to do the best with what ive got.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Has you bf been for a medical check-up to try and determine the reason for his impotence? Do you give your bf oral, if so, then asking him for oral is okay. However if you dont give him oral dont expect him to give it to you on command.
Have you discussed your feeling cheated in bed with him?
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