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female
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22-25,
*-otic Angel
writes:since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or is he or i doing something wrong.
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reader, Uncle Phil  + ♥, writes (30 April 2009):
 Don't fake it otherwise he'll think he's doing a fantastic job of pleasuring you and nothing will improve.
The 'G' spot, located about an inch or so inside your vagina behind your pelvic bone, is the sensitive bit in there, some say it's connected to the clitoris by a few nerves. If you can get him to cause some friction there with his penis there's every chance you'll experience a vaginal orgasm.
If you lie on your back and he kneels down in front of you with his penis inside you, then leans back while you move your hips up and down it will add extra pressure to the area. He won't necessarily have to move at all, and you can control the tempo. If need be, place a folded pillow under your backside to lift your hips a bit higher off the bed to try to get the 'angle of attack' right.
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 Most women cannot orgasm during intercourse because intercourse only stimulates the vagina, which as you now well know, is not sexually sensitive. You are obviously aware of your clitoris, which is your sexual pleasure focus, so stimulate your clitoris with your hand or a sex toy during intercourse and you might be able to orgasm during penetration.
90% of women are just like you. You're totally normal.
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female
reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (30 April 2009):
 If your on top you will orgasm no problem keep practising you will come!
People have different views on woman reaching a climax during intercourse but i think with every individual and depending on how good your partner is with knowing your body you can climax during sex, most though come during foreplay and that is ok if your fine with that.
I would experiment more with different positions and find what works best for you dont fake it though there is no point to that and your better being open and honest about these things that way you will get what you want when you want.
Gina
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reader, Mikados are lush! +, writes (30 April 2009):
 Stop faking, and accept that only 30% of women will orgasm during intercourse alone and the other 70% need other stimulation. If you fake it, you're not being true to either of you. Experiment a bit more and you might find you're one of the 30% in the end anyway.
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