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writes:i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Everyone is nervous about their first time, some people more than others. I was fucking terrified but I had been abused (if you have please get counseling and tell any potential partners the best thing I ever did was tell my husband). You are still young so you may not be ready and there is absolutely no reason to force yourself, when the time is right believe it or not you'll know and even then you'll likely still be a bit nervous. As for performance anxiety we've all got it, I study sexual techniques and ask my partner to communicate what he likes and this helps me, When you find someone you love, who loves and respects you, whose willing to wait for you, who you can talk to about sex, about your feelings, and about your future hopes and dreams, someone you really trust, who you can be yourself around, who treats you well then when you do have sex you'll feel so much safer and loved and it will take away so much of the pressure and the stress.
Sexiness is not actually a physical look its how you feel about yourself, if you are comfortable in your own skin and confident you are sexy. I am not a typical beauty but when I feel good about myself despite my flaws men still find me attractive (not all of them of course but some) and someone who loves you really won't care about your stomach, he'll probably be worried that you find his penis too small lol
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 What's wrong with your stomach?
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