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How can I heat things up? Help

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Question - (13 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my guy and i have been together for 2 years and a half now . we love each other so much have sex almost 3 times a week sometimes more .

but i feel that our sex life is starting to be boring , same old same old. we have a little foreplay in the beginning and then just have sex like everyday .

he has never mentioned this to me but i dont want him to be bored from it. what can i do to heat things up a liitle ?

how can i make him feel like the first time we did it every time ?

any ideas ?

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (15 April 2009):

jay12toes agony aunti agree with satindesire, but dont fake the enthusiasm, we can tell.... well some of us can.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009):

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thanks for all ur answers .

i think ill try customs .

but how can i change my attitude during sex ? is there anything i can do to stimulate him more ?

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A male reader, pure shade 5 United States +, writes (13 April 2009):

pure shade 5 agony aunttry diffrent things like with my ex we did it 5 times a week and it got pretty borring then we started trying diffrent posions like doggie the chair we even tryed upside down (that one didnt work so well) a diffrent posion can some times help

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (13 April 2009):

jay12toes agony auntWell first off if you give it more time between having sex then it would be more exciting. but if your not the patient type there are all kinds of other things you can do.

costumes, new clothes, toys, or even just a change in attitude. oh a change in atmosphere is always good too. like for instance when my girl has lots of energy she will jump up and down, which its just hot to see a women in just a bra and panties jumping up and down, she also wore a bra that buckles in the front, which i really liked.

We haven't had sex yet but i know all about heating up the foreplay. there are other examples i could mention but i dont want to take up that much space.

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