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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her ...

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy ...

Where exactly is my G-spot and what can I do with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is such an embarrassing question... where is my G-spot and how do I use it?...

Is it normal to keep on wanting sex but when there's a chance to get it to not want it anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is it normal wanting to have sex constantly .. but then when i see a lad and they try to come onto me i dont want it but even when i mess about with my friends .. (girls) i still dont want it ?? help x...

What are his reasons behind joining this website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i had a child with a man who i not only loved but who i thought wanted to be with me and our daughter as a family. I have found out that after we split up he went on an adult websight and has ticked boxes in which he has said he is looking for ...

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I...

She told me she only kissed him but I don't believe her. Should I give her another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - i went out for town for the weekend and when i came back my wife said we needed do talk about our relationship. she said she loved me but was not in love with me and had no attraction to me any more. i was shocked and did not see this coming, ...

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened ...

What can I do to make my periods less heavy and painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hello everyone i have a menstrual problem, im on the rod thing and the pill as well, i had my period for the first time in about a year or so bout 3 weeks ago, ive got them again and alot more heavier and alot more painful, what do you suggest? ...

Am I just a sex buddy for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Please help me understand what a fuck buddy is and to clarify if my "boyfriend" is actually a fuck buddy. I met him about three months ago and he's been so busy with his work and business. I see him twice a week and sometimes once. Becau...

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

Is the tingling feeling in my penis normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Im 11 and last week i started getting a tingling feeling in my penis and it makes me really horny. It happens 2 or 3 times a day,normaly when i wake up. any ideas why its happening. im not saying that i want it to go away cuz it feels really good ...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

How can I become more active during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes... ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing...

What can I do about this person who is trying to blackmail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'm a married bad girl. I've cheated on my husband 6 times over the last 4 years. I know I am wrong and I know I am bad. I've had intercourse with one of those people, the others I've just fooled around with and the last one that I’ve fooled a...

Does this mean I'm addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Recently i discovered the joy of masterbating and the truth is that it has been great. However, i have been doing it a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a day, and when i have the oppurtunity to do it but it is inappropriate(e.g at home doing work) i find i ...

Have I ruined my sister's life by having sex with her? I know I have a psychological problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I have a psychological problem, but i cant come out of it. I'm 33 yrs old unmarried. I've a sister who is 25. From last year I developed a strong sexual desire for her. It started accidentally. One day I saw her doing kitchen work, wearing a ...

I'm pregnant and in despair! Is there help for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Well ive been dating this guy about a year. And about three months ago i found out i was pregnant. Things were going good. Well he suddenly wanted to start going out with his friends and then recently his ex fling has started having contact with ...

Any advice about going through my periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi, I started my periods a while ago and it was really hard telling my mum but i did eventually ive started again for the second time and i dont really wanna go though telling her again. I'm not close to my mum. She has stocked me up with thousand...

He told his girlfriend what I said to him! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This guy at work and I were attracted to each other. So as to cut thru the crap I came out and told him that I wanted to have sex with him, which we never did. Now he has a girlfriend (she works there too) and I think he told her what I said to ...

Does he just want me to chase him? I'm getting crazy mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Here is the deal.. recently going through seperation we have 2 wonderful kids. I am not used to meeting guys and the whole dating thing. I met this guy 10 months ago.. he came into my life and went out. I just really was unsure as to starting over ...

Retroactive Jealousy: how do I overcome it?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right, so I am not even really sure how to start this. Basically, I suffer from what many other men (and few women) seem to suffer from as well. Retroactive Jealousy, or "her past"... Its horrible, its utterly disturbing and self destructive. I have ...

Hubby complains that I am not active during sex! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My husband of 5 years and I have a good sex life. BUT, he complains that i don't ever do anything during sex. He just gives me my oral and he gets on top then we're done. Honestly, I feel like I put some motion in it, but, he says "i love it, I just ...

Not bleeding after first time sex, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Having sex for the first time and not bleeding is that normal????...

Any ideas on how to help her enjoy intercourse? And stop it from hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we have been intimate for over half of that. Things are going wonderfully in all aspects except one. Whenever we have intercourse it hurts her, a lot. The last time we did it, by the time I ...

I'm worried about our future sex life, my penis and her vagina are not a great fit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend states she is very satisfied with our sex life, and I am too, but I am worried about the future as we are considering a long-term relationship. I have a modest penis, nothing I'm ashamed of but definitely on the smaller end of normal, ...

Do you think he means what he says? Do you think I'm going to lose him??? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have known this lad for 5 months.. it doesnt seem that long but it feels like it's been forever .. the other night we was sat in his house and we was having a drink and just talking and having a little kiss and that .. but he stopped and i was sat ...

Twosome that became dissapointing threesomes...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am a middle aged woman with a married girlfriend (I have known her before she got married) we like to party and her hubby don’t mind at first it was only her and I satisfying each other, her hubby has known about us before they got married and he ...

How can I stop gagging when giving Blow Jobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over a year now. He REALLY likes it when I give him a blow job...my only problem is I gag. I cant help it, it's not the fact that his cock is in my mouth, it's the fluids...even just pre-cum. For some reason ...

Is masturbation a sin?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am a christian who masterbates. I want to know whether masterbation is a sin or not. please help....

My breasts have been hurting since we had sex, is that a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex three days ago, and he injected in me three times, today my breasts have been hurting a little but not much. Is that a sign of pregnancy? somebody please help me....

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to be intimate anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok story goes like this.. I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. At first he put me on a pedestal, he called me "His earth angel" sex was fun, loving was fun, and the care and respect i got from him was beautiful. However th...

Should I consider his odd behavior as cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is this considered cheating? Or am i overreacting? This guy I like/liked and have a past with still talks to me a lot even though he used me and lied to me while seeing other girls. Now he has a new girlfriend but she moved to another province...

I'm undesided on what kind of relationship I want with this guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - OK, so I don't know where I stand on this guy. He told me he liked me, we cuddled and got touchy at one point, but then this past weekend I pretty much gave him the idea that I wasn't really interested. Now I'm not so sure. He's like one of my guy ...

I met some sex people at a Cancun club and can't get it out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - So about a week ago while in Cancun on vacation with a friend I was at Cocobongo when this very attractive woman gave me a stare from across the room. This is when I should have known something was up, after all there were about 2,500 people in this ...