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Archived questions from: 30 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ...

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard ...

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started ...

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to ...

Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?...

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After ...

My husband is afraid of physical contact from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Help. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. For nearly six years we have had no physical relationship to speak of. My husand is afraid of physical contact from me. We do however have a daughter of 5 who he adores and will provide her with...

Self Conscious about my vagina!! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Personally i feel really weird asking these questions but they are driving me crazy!! I am a teen and as many people say am very self conscious about my vaginal area. I am in a relationship with a boy and i want to go the next level with him but ...

Why is he ignoring me? We had sex but I want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Ok here we go... I met a bloke 2 weeks ago and he's a friend of my housemates. We all went out and got drunk one night and I let him sleep in my bed. One thing led to another and in the morning we had sex. He lives about an hour and a half away fro...

I wanted more romance and now she's broken up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I have been seeing a girl the last few months, its long distance of sorts being about 2hours travel apart. We meet as much as we can as our jobs and busy personal lives will allow us. Yesterday things came to a head however after an arugement. ...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

I feel so used and violated. Does anyone else think this behaviour is abnormal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I think i was violated by a guy i just had sex with. I hung out with this guy twice, the first time he tried taking my pants off but i insisted they stay on. I wish i would have listened to my instincts that he only wanted sex from me, but i ...

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I let him know I need to feel wanted and taken once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am 41 years old and I started dating a 34 year old. I do not think he has any previous experience with women and I do not think he knows how to please a woman orally or even in bed. He is a great guy, very gentle but how would I let him know that ...

Is there a way to tell when a girl is cumming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hey Cupid. I was just wondering if there is a way for a guy to tell whether a girl is cumming during sex? Because my girlfriend groans and gets wet but I want to know if she is just one of those girls who don't ever cum or whether I just can't te...

Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...

Is it a bad thing for a girl to take a while to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay, Well i take forever to orgasm.... Is it a bad thing? Any advice? ...

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts ...