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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

Me, my wife and our girlfriend...happily ever after?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Okay, here is the situation. My wife of nearly ten years fell in love with a woman after a period of time, where it was mostly just playful and some physical stuff. It was not intended and I always thought my wife was bi curious, but she obvi...

She wants me to masturbate in front of her but I don't fancy the idea. How can I convince her to desist it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for 8 months and we have a great sex life but now she wants me to masturbate in front of her and I refused. She gets angry and threatens to stop having sex with me if I don't do this for her, because it's always been her fant...

My boyfriend is scared of intimacy, he stops in the middle and goes to the bathroom to masturbate. How to get him to behave like a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 380 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I'm at my wits end. Please help me. My boyfriend, who I've been with for 9 months, is very caring and we get on really well together. We spend a lot of our free time together and I would say that I'm definitely in love with him. The problem is that ...

My ex has me utterly humiliated by revealing intimate details about me and our sex life to... anyone who will listen! How do I get revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I recently went through a messy break-up with a girl who I'd been dating for two years. After the break up, she started revealing certain intimate details about me to members of my family and pretty much anyone else who'll listen. She's divulged ...

Has he lost interest because of the weight I gained during pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - weve been leaving in a same house with my boyfriend since we get started our relationship it take 1year and 8months and i get pregnant. after i gave birth of our son that was two months ago i gain weight 140lbs before im just 110lbs only! where not ...

Is having sex 2-3 times a week really that bad? How can I get her to stop pressuring me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year and our problem is that her sex drive dwarves mine. I do enjoy sex with her but only on an approximate 2-3 times a week basis, and this seems far too little for her. It never really sememed a...

Could he be playing games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a guy wants you to stay the night after sex, but then says he does not want a relationship with you. Is he playing games? ...

Why has he never made love to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I spent the night in bed with a man I love on Saturday, and it's about the eighth time I have shared his bed. We only see each other now and then but he has already said that he adores me, that he thinks I am a great woman and that he admires me. ...

I choke during fellatio every time, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - MY bf is too big for me to give blowjobs, everytime i do it i choke, i want to carry on but i cant breath what shall i do?? ...

When I have sex I either ejaculate too quick or can't get erect! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I have a Big problem anytime Im havin sex either I come too Quick or I cant get hard or I get hard for a lil while and it go down I really need help with that because I dont why this happenin to me please get back at me with some good answer thanks...

Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?...

How can I know my girlfriend is ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - How can i know that my girlfriend is ready for sex?...

I can control the orgasm but the problem is that when I'm ready my penis retracts, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I can maintain my erection but the problem is when I'm ready to explode my penis retract or becomes small while inside the vagina and this is according to my gf. I usually notice this with my fast rhythm but my penis is fully erect and big wh...

It felt as though I was having a bowel movement at the end of anal sex. How can I avoid this feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I have a question regarding anal sex - I have done this once with my boyfriend, but was fairly uncomfortable at the end, because when he was pulling out it FELT like I was having a bowel movement! Obviously I wasn't, but this makes me hesitant to do ...

I dislike anal sex, I think it's strange and I'm scared of it, but I do it for my husband's sake; our sex life has deteriorated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for over 10 years and married for 5, our sex life was fine up in till a couple of years ago we got a strap on dildo he wanted anal sex. lets put it this way i have never seen him like that before, he really enjoyed it. t...

My boyfriend has a much lower sex drive than I do and I'm sexually frustrated. How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having trouble keeping our sex drives in sync. He says he is satisfied with sex 2 times a week whereas I would prefer 2 or 3 times a DAY if I could (well I wouldn't expect that but basically the more I can get, the happier I ...

Is his sex talk normal, or a sign of paedophilia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - im a 21 - if im having sex with my boyfriend and he says that he wants me to call him my daddy and he calls me his little girl or good little girl is that hot or perverted, pedophilia signs, or just getting freaky...

He went down on me and wanted nothing in return - is this normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Me and this guy that I've only met twice have hooked up each time we've been together while at a friend's house. Each time, he's gone down on me, but afterwards it didn't seem like he wanted anything in return. Does that seem wierd to anyone? Why ...

Is it true that you can get pregnant if you have sex a couple of days before your period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I think im pregnant. Im supposed to get my period already, we had sex 3 days ago and people say that if u have sex like a couple days befoore ur period u can get pregnant. is it true? and what should i do?...

Does he just want me for some booty or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Sooo, me and this guy I've met twice hooked up last weekend. The first time we met we also hooked up (we were also drunk each time). Although we ended up sleeping with each other, we only messed around and didn't actually have sex. Then last nigh...