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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will fertility drugs help me get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my husband and i are trying to have a baby-we have tried for three years and cant aford ivf-they said his sperm count was low and thewy are not great swimmers although they did not rule out that he would not father children----tryinh a turkey ...

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...

Does my vagina hurt because of the rough sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my perio...

After my pregnancy, my husband prefers to look at porn instead of sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5years now, we have 2 babies.. a while back , late at night, he asked what i was about to do... I said,"go sit on the couch"... well, the t.v. timer came on for lesbian sex. I figured I wasnt doin the job, so i go to ...

How can I tell my wife that we need to separate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hmm well i hope you can help ! iv been with my partner of 10 yrs now im 27 and she is 44 ,we have a son who is three and we love him to bits . unfortunately our relationship is very stale and even tho we laugh together and go out together as a ...

I'm involved a crazy love triangle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Alright this one is a tough one, so I'll try to really explain this one. I'm involved in a crazy love triangle. I have a child with a guy who has another child with another girl. She has two children ages 2 and 5. Now a couple months ago I got ...

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...

How can I talk other women knowing I'll never pleasure them sexually?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hi, i dont know where to start, i am married with four grown up children, ok here we go, my youngest is 27 she has a girl 8 years old and a boy 3 years old. she was on heroin and me and my wife went through hell with her, we got her of it eventua...

Occasional intimacy issues, need advice from the ladies

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl I really like for 3 months now. We decided we want to be exclusive with each other. We're both mid-to late 20's. We get along GREAT, she hasnt been in a r'ship in 3 yrs (because she claims to not have found a guy she wants ...

I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have ...

Porn and sex, not so black and white...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Married for two yrs, one child. My husband and I have sex daily. He orgasms at least twice a day by sex, oral, and you name it, i'm game. Yet he still looks at porn. One, i am completely amazed he has it in him, and two it hurts that despite my best ...

He told me he was lusting after other women, which was a shock to me as I thought he'd become rather asexual! Should I be worried and what can I do to spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi - hoping someone can help me out here. I've been with my partner for 16 years. He is 44 (I'm 5 years younger). We have two young kids. He wasn't so keen on having kids but went along with the plan. Things haven't been great with us lately and ...

How can I aproach my wife so that we make love at lease once a week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hi... I'm 32 and she's 37.We've been together for 5 years.Every year we have less sex(1-2 times/ month) but the quality of our sex is phenomenal. My desire for her is very intense but she refuses to have sex more than 1-3 times/ month and it's ...

I won't let my boyfriend go down on me because I think it's disgusting down there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants to go down on me but im uncomfortable with it cuz i mean isnt it disgusting down there like the pee comes out from there and its slimy and smelly and hairy so why would anyone want to do that?...

He's looking for group sex - am I fair to be feeling this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - i have found out that when we split up my ex partner went on a large site looking for group sex and couple sex and he never put his sexual orientation as being straight. I thought that i had a child with a decent heterasexual man but it seems that ...

Why would my boyfriend want to have a threesome with another guy? Is he bisexual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to do a 3 some with him, but not with a girl, with a guy! when we werent' serious we had a threesome with my bestfriend he didnt have sex with her but yeah, we did. and now he's saying he wants me to have sex with...

Faded attraction for my BF, I want to explore more sexually wise, our biggest problem is we cannot afford separate appartments.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Here's my dilemma- My BF of 2 years does not turn me on AT ALL anymore. He hasn't for the past 6 months, and at first I thought I was just having a slump and didn't want sex with anyone, but now I am just so attracted to other guys. I fantasiz...

How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - I am 27yrs old guy i am very much atracted towards my cousin who is 17yrs old. Every time i see her i feel to make love with her. I know she also loves me.But i dont know how to approach her. Please help me out....

Can anyone give me information about all contraceptive methods?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi I used to be on the pill, because I had heavy periods and stomach cramps. A year after I began taking the pill I found out there was many associated risks, eg. Cancers. So I stopped the pill. Now I have a great boyfriend and am considering beco...

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

How long should I wait on sex to earn respect in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok it's super unlike me to wait on sex but I'm coming to realize that pretty much if you want someone to respect you, you have to give it some time. So... how long do I give it and more importantly how the hell do I politely turn it down??? Guys are ...

He says he doesn't do oral sex - is he lying or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I am hooking up with a guy who does not perform oral sex. He says it is reserved for his wife-to-be or if he is drunk. He has done it before, but not to me. He says it is a cultural thing for him, that the boys he grew up with are all the same. ...

My boyfriend hardly orgasms with a condom on. Any reason why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have sex atleast twice a month for the past 5 months and we are both 18.We had sex without a condom twice and he came in about 3 minutes,but with a condom sex lasts for hours and its difficult for him to come although the sex is ...