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anonymous
writes:Hello everyone : )I have a problem getting wet especially since I've been on the pill. I want to buy lube but I'm embarassed. I'm 18 btw any advice?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Take yourself into the drug store. Over by the pharmacy, there should be a whole section of birth control, the male condom, the female condom, and also lubrication choices there. Slink up to the rack that has the KY stuff and look it over quickly. Find one that will be suitable for you, take it to the pharmacy counter and buy it there. You don't have to go through the main checkout that way. This you can do right away. If you're willing to wait, google 'ky jelly' and find the main website, you can buy online. You can also examine the choices on line, so you don't have to spend more than a few seconds pulling it off the shelf when you go in. (Of course, there are other brands out there, this is just the first one I thought of.) Just do it when you have your prescription filled.
I would suggest that you have a talk with your gynecologist about this if it truly is a problem for you. There are many types of pills out there and perhaps this one isn't the best for you. Don't be afraid to tell her/him about the problem; she won't know if it's not really the best one for you if you don't tell her! It might be a common problem, and she's already dealt with it before.
And do make sure that you are taking your time in lovemaking; give yourself a break and don't rush into intercourse if you're not ready for it. If you've always had a problem, then maybe you're not letting yoursef have enough time to become fully aroused. Just a thought.
Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): I will let others here comment better than I can on this its um more of a girl thing, however some thoughts...
Do you get wet on your own? or is it just when you are with partner that you have a problem?
you can order stuff online - shouldn't be that embarrassing? not sure of quality US pervayor of such items.
Hugs.Star.X
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