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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since ...

We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...

Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...

How can I convince my boyfriend to have sex with me while I'm on my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't ...

Are there any suggestions that could help me get rid off my scars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem...not so much about a relationship but will be affected some day.... i used to self harm when i was a teenager and although i have completely recovered from them problems now i have a perminant reminder....i self harmed on my sto...

Do these signs mean that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I think i mite be pregnant but im not sure. I was due to come on today. I took 2 pregnancy tests yesterday. A cheap brand I took at lunchtime showed a very, very faint positive line, i mean extremely faint. I went straight out and bought a mor...

How tight is a normal vagina?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...

What is the contraceptive coil like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...

What can I do to get my mom to understand I'm having protected sex with a guy I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - ten days ago, i got in from a night out to find that my mum had found my pills. i am 15 and 11 months and have a boyfriend who is 17 and 2 months. we have been together a year now, but about three months ago, the question of sex had come up, he ...

Will the condom stop working if he stays inside you after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i was just reading on one of the other questions 'Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time' that it said: "Many couples like to stay coupled as the guy grows soft inside the girl. (You should NOT do this if you are rely...

What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and ...

My ex has a girlfriend, but still has sex with me. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I still love my ex but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps coming up to me for sex. He keeps telling me that he loves me. I have a daughter by him, and i'm not taking the pill. The sex with him is great. What do i do? ...

What are my chances of being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I had sex 23 days after the first day of my last period, what are the chances of been pregnant?...

I don't (usually) ejaculate during sex, what can I do for this to happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I'm the type of person who has to tighten his muscles to climax while masturbation, and i just plain have the most god-awful time cumming during sex; i once set out on a mission to make it happen, and 4 hours of sex, and i still have yet to cum; and ...

What are the chances of pregnancy if you have sex while the girl is on her period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend has sex while she was on her period and didnt use a condom but i did not cum in her what are the chances she could get pregnent?...

My girlfriend has a low sex-drive and it's beginning to worry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am in a very happy relationship were very much in love and having a great time with each other. were both 20 and this is my first and her 3rd serious relationship. Recently we have taken each others virginity and are making love, which was fun but ...

Boyfriend masturbates to porn and then says, "it's not you". Why does he choose this over me?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I really badly need to get this off my chest (no pun intended). I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and when we first got together, things were great. Then I found out he watches porn. One night, I was feeling ill, and...

I want to lose my virginity but I don't know who to lose it with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i want to lose my virginity but idk who to loose it with...i want to with my ex because he's the only one that im comfortable with...im not comfortable wit sumone else...so should i just have sex wit my ex and continue on with my life? or just ...

I'm disabled and can't date. Is it wrong to pay for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Im disabled for 3 years now, is it wrong to pay for sex ive never had to resort to this but now because of my disability i cant get out to meet women so i feel that is the only answer...

How soon after unprotected sex can I tell if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - my period started Aug. 17, and had an unprotected sex after 6 days and again on the 14th day? will i get pregnant? how early will i know if i'm pregnant? ...

Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hi I have a question about sex. Basically, I just read in cosmopolitan that 34% of a poll of men thought the best length of time to spend having sex was 45 minutes. As a virgin, I was just wondering how you have sex for a length of tim eth...

We had a little unprotected sexual activity, and I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Ok first off i'm 16 and my girlfriend spent the night i snuck into her room i fingered her a little bit then stuck my penis unprotected in going in and out only for a minute or so. She got sick one morning but thats it felt fine in the afternoon. im ...

I like kinky sex but my boyfriend doesn't want to play.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - This is not the first time Ive had this issue. This is just the first important relationship Ive had it in. Im kinky. Im the type of kinky that you see in porn. I love to be held down, spanked, forced to do whatever my partner desires. Being h...