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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What classifies as an "active" sex life? Just curious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - How much times do you have to have sex in a week to have an active sexual life??...

Was he just in it for the sex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so ive been out on a few dates with this guy i met about a year ago.. we've kept in contact since then..emails, texts etc. and bumped into each other on nights out every couple of weeks, we've ended up sleeping in the same bed 3 times after ...

Our sex life is great it's just that he is wanting to do it always, is this a normal guy thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hey everyone just need some advice... i recently gave away my virginty to a person that i am with.. we both love each other and i felt it he was the right guy... anyway the issue however is the fact that he is alwaysss on it... our sex life is great ...

Reluctant to be intimate with him because he had sex with another girl during our break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice. Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset wh...

How do you make love to a very large guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This may sound so stupid but...........I need to know, my boyfriend is overweight a very large tummy and I'm thin. Oh my gosh I'm so embarresed to ask but how do you make love to a very large guy, his tummy gets in the way. And he's not very well ...

I keep losing my erection with my gf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - well i have a girl friend and we have been going out for 3moths and the first time we had sex i was hard but the 2 time we had sex i coulddnt get hard. for some some reason i masterbat 2 porn but only like a littil not alot i do it like 1 or 2 times ...

We can sleep with other people although we are married... to each other! What does this mean? Are we over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - why would my husband be okay with me sleeping with other men? We have talked about an open marriage, but i can not wrap my head around this one? i am not emotionally stable to say the least. Why would i be okay with him having sex with others ...

7 months pregnant and have to deal with the fact that he wants to keep nude pics of him and his ex! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi there I am 7 months pregnant, it has been a hard pregnancy as my partner and I were not together when I got pregnant but when all was decided we decided to give it a go... again. Our relationship of 2.5 years has a tough one as he was still ...

How do you find a decent man? One who doesn't just want you for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - How do you find a decent man? who doesnt just want you for sex? How do you know when they are telling the truth and not just trying to get into your knickers? coz I dont have a clue, and neither does anyone else I know. Please help, Im starting to f...

Why wont he respond to my booty call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - When you have slept with someone 2 times and both know it is just for sex.. then why would he not respond to my booty call? The sex was great and he is definately not in a relationship. help. ...

I can't seem to penetrate her, we are both virgins, any recommended positions/tecnhiques?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are virgins and when we try to have sex, I cant seem to go inside her. She seems so tight. We had done loads of foreplay and she is very wet and moist but im not having much joy. Any positions/techniques to try or what to do?...

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

We only have sex infrequently and he lets everything else come between our sex life. How can I get him to see how much I need sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend used to have a really high sex drive and now seems to have none. We have gone weeks without sex and I seem to be the only one who cares. When I said something to him about it he actually said to me "Well, I have a lot on my mind and ...

What should I do now to stop being pregnant??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Last night i had sex usig condom but unfourtunatley it broke and becose i was scared i took a pill of microgynon which i had stopped for a while, what shall i do now? Is it possible that this piss to not have an efect from the first day? What you...

My girlfriend wants me to masturbate in front of her - but I don't know how.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - i'm a 14 year male and my story's alittle akword... my girlfriend asked me to masterbate im front of her, (not going into detail) and i really don't know how to masterbate. i'm pretty despirate......

I am unsure about my sexuality, how do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am 17, female...and i am very confused! i have a boyfriend who i love but i cant stop looking at or thinking about girls!!! before i met him i considered myself bisexual...but i never knew for sure...i find women way more attractive than ...

I'm just wondering what I can do to get my little sisters' head right without beating the holiness out of her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - what's the charge if someone tries to get a person raped? i have 3 little sisters and the youngest invited a guy to our home while i was gone. my little sis who is 21 now, was raped by that same guy when she was 16. im just wondering what i can d...

Can a fetish be cured?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are a completely happy, normal couple. Sort of. Earlier in our relationship I noticed it was hard for him to get it up and even keep it up. We struggled for a few weeks. He was more mad about it than I was. He later conf...

How can I make my mum talk about masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate?...