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*lueless22
writes:Ok I'm 15 and ill admit I party so I was completly wasted and me and this guy had sex but were not dating or any thing and I was just wondering HOW MANY TIMES can I have sex and it still hurt because I had to push him back a couple times because it hurt so much and I could tell he was getting fruistrated what do. Should I just keep going even tho it hurts? Help ...No lectures please Reply to this Question |
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reader, clueless22 +, writes (13 October 2008):
clueless22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you and yes we used a condom and ivd considered what you said a lot so thank you again
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 The reason it hurts is because you're rushing into it, you're not relaxed and aren't enjoying yourself.
Sex is not for men's benefit, girl! If you have so little respect for yourself to let him carry on even though you're in pain, how can you expect him to respect you?
When you're in a relationship or at least confident about sex and comfortable with your sexual partner, sex should be painless, because a man who cares for and respects you will spend time pleasing you, making you relaxed and wet enough to allowe his penis in.
Also, did you use a condom? Do you hurt when you go pee? Because if you didn't and you're in pain for days after sex, it's likely you've caught an infection!
No lectures, but why do you have so little self respect to let a boy have rough sex with you, with no love, no committment and when drunk?
You don't owe me an answer, but what about yourself?
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