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Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

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Question - (30 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to put up with the whole thing...because in the end I don't feel that I would even be benefiting from it...anyway I was wondering if I should get a vibrator/dildo just for now...to fulfill my want of intimacy until Im in a new relationship..??would that be weird to look to dildo to satisfy me sexually until im with someone else?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

The trouble of FWB is you're having sex with someone and they offer nothing in emotional support.

You then start a relationship with someone and expect them to offer this support. The new guy thinks hey hold on a bit, i'm being asked to pay more.

Don't sell yourself off cheap.

It's o.k if you can or want to keep your past a secret.

If i were you i'd make friends with guys but not have sex until you are ready to start a relationship.

Vibrator is good in mean time

Good luck

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