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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Had unprotected sex and now...my period is late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - im seriously confused. ive been havin unprotected sex with my boyfriend and my period is over a week late. im not always regular but im fairly close to the same date most of the time. my mothers keeps on pressuring me because she thinks i might be ...

Does my husband have a porn addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have just discovered my husbands porn addiction. We have been married for 27 years. I have always known that he looks, but accepted it. Recently I was off work with a broken bone for 6 weeks, and he kept disappearing to the computer room. When I ...

At what age does a penis stop growing? My friend keep on taking the piss, saying my one is small because of what a girl said!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - dear cupid im 17 years old, turning 18 in march, i would like to know at what age does the penis stop growing, and is their any way of making it bigger? As i think my one is small, and the fact that my friend keep on taking the piss saying my o...

She did upset me for a bit, but it made me question myself and my penis...Any thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I just had a random conversation with my ex and the topic of sex with her new guy haphazardly came up, and she said that he annoys her all the time and if it wasn't for how big his penis was, he would've been gone a long time ago. She also said that ...

I'm over him but I'm simply hurt at his lost of morals, and that there is hope for my current relationship - but I can't be sure. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I am a sophomore in college and am currently dating a new guy. We have been together for about two months now but I'm not sure if I still have feelings for my ex. My ex boyfriend and I had a very emotional connection. He was like my best friend and ...

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

Does anybody have any advice or tips of how friends of the opposite sex can live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Next summer I will be moving in to an apartment with my best guy friend. We will both be 18. We have known each other for a little over 4 years and get along really well most of the time. I lost my virginity to him, and we have never been toge...

I don't know if he's going to hurt me again. Is he just using me now for a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hey guys im 17 , a junior. I had a boyfriend for a full year we were in love , with eachother 24/7 . i was so comfortable with him. this sumer i went off to camp and that runied everything. when i got back things just were not the same. we drifted ...

Bigger does feel better but is it SAFE? My husband and I have experimented with large sex toys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been happily married for 30 years. We are both in our early fifties and enjoy sex tremendously. Over the past year my husband decided it was time for me to experience the feeling of being penetrated both ...

I'm 14 and when I masturbate I never cum, why is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - hi, i know this is a stupid question but i am really starting to worry about it. im 14 and when i masturbate i never cum. i have never cummed before and dont ask how i know that my 12 yrs old brother has cummed but i just do. is there somet...

I walked in on my best friend masturbating, now all I can think about is us having sex! help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - My next door neighbor and i are really close - you could even say we're best friends. We're really close, but our relationship is completely platonic. Well, at least on his part... he has a girlfriend he has been with for almost 8 months, which is...

We married after knowing each other for a month, now he lies to me, neglects me and we have sex once in a month. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hi.. i m shilpa...i am married now for 8 months... he is is 26 yrs holdand i am 34 yrs we liked each other n got married after knowing each other for a month and he is aware of my age ... my parents know we got registered marriage but his parents...

My lesbian partner has no sex drive, what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 32 yr old lesbian, and i've been living with my partner for 4 yrs. We are 12 yrs apart, she is older. My question is; my partner has no sex drive, what can i do??...

I really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. So guys, what really turns you on??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, This one is just a bit of fun really but it was something i was thinking about as i really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. Ok, guys, what turns you on the most? 1.Sexy nurse 2.French Maid 3.Police Wo...

We were 'wife swapping', then jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners. It started with simple massage sessions...

He has a girlfriend, but he also wants to be my f*** buddy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - ok well im in love with this guy lets call him joe, and we only lasted a week after that. We have become friends , or more or less f**k buddies, but i dont want that, i want to be with him, but he loves someone else, im confused. what do you thin...

I can't even remember the last time I wore matching underwear. What does that tell you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years, i cant say we have ever had an amazing sex life....hes not very confident etc and we have sex like once a week. The problem is i think about sex all the time. I would love it everyday but when i dont have ...

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he ...

What exactly happens when a guy reaches orgasm or ejaculates? Can you describe this please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt it when my bf ejaculates but i know that he does. He never makes any noises or anything. I would sometimes feel him hold me tight and goes deeper inside during sex. But i'm not really sure if is that the time when he is ejaculating. ...

How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - How do you tell your girlfriend they're bad at giving oral sex? I've tried talking to her about it but she kinda got really upset and slapped me a few times and then walked away....

If you were unsatisifed with your sex life, would you speak up? Or would you just get it elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and we've been having sex for the last four years (we waited a few months). Usually we have a very active, very experimental, very fun sex life. We both enjoy trying new things, and there have been stretches ...

My ex is pregnant with another man's baby, I have a child on the way to another woman, and now my ex wants me back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hello all, Hmm, where do i start I am 34 years old and my ex partner is 24, my partner and i seperated this year in February. We were together for 4 years and had a 2 year old son. We broke up because she says that she has lost the love and feelings...

My wife doesn't like sex as often and we fight a lot over this issue. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I've been married 2 1/2 years and my wife doesnt like having sex all that often....maybe once a week or so... We are both 23 years old and she has offered to let me have my way with her whenever I want, but I dont want to just cum and done kinda t...

Lost my virginity while my bf was away! Will he know I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has gone away to study. When he left i was a virgin but now I'm not. Will he know that I'm not a virgin? I dont want to tell him the truth bcause i know what will happen. ...

How can I stop this need to pleasure myself whilst at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - hi, everyday whilst at work i have very strong sexual desires and find it hard to go an hour without pleasuring myself. often my boss questions me as to why i need to use the bathroom so often and i dont know what to say. how can i stop the need to ...

What can we do to improve sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - My gf says she doesnt feel much sensation during sex. i have tried different positions and many more things what shouldwe do as a couple to improve her sex?...

My man is trying to fulfil my fantasy of sex with two men, but I'm unsure. Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (?) - My man recently asked if I had ever fantasized about having sex with two men, and I honestly answered yes. Now he's really trying to make this happen. I'm not sure that I would like the idea of me, him and another guy. In my fantasy, it was me ...

I feel like I still love my ex... but I don't like having sex with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - loving a person means you enjoy sex, or you can still love somebody but not liking the sex you have. This is what happens between me and my ex bf, we are trying to go back together, but I do not like to have sex with him. I dated another guy a few ...

He's too big, or I'm too tight... Either way, sex is difficult. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - this is embarrasing but i have to ask. Me and my boyfriend have been together along time. he is about 6'3 and i am 4'9... We tried having sex b4 but he was too big or i was to tight...either way it didnt work. so he tried fingering me with mor...

My boyfriend can't sem to have sex with me. Is he not attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I just got back together after 2 years. We have worked everything out about our past emotionally, but the physical part has not caught up. He did most of the damage in our past that makes him have more guilt than me. I was hurt...