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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I want to end the cycle - but I fear that means ending the marriage...what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - My wife and I met when I was 18; she was 21. We've been together for 15 years and married for 13. After we moved in together the challenges of married life started to surface, I started to notice she'd distance herself emotionally and intimately. ...

What's he hiding???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down it he would jerk away. Why? ...

Should I let him follow his dream??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said ...

How do I overcome my fear of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I have a problem to which I need some advice. I have been in a gay relationship with my soulmate for almost 3 years now. When we met we were polar opposites: I was 21 years old, very sexually experienced, loved one night stands, was sexually ...

How am I suppose to behave around my girlfriend? She was raped.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend very much. Things are going great with us. But when we first started dating she told me about how she had previously been raped (she didn't say when in her past this happened). She told me that he tried to choke her and that ...

Do giving blow jobs make your stomach hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - hey :) whenever my boyfriend and i hang out (two-three times a week) i give him a blow job. but the next morning, my stomach hurts really, really bad. are they linked? or is is a coinsidense?...

I have clear discharge after having sex, is this normal? I'm sore too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - hi, yesterday i had sex for the first time in a year and now i notice a day after i feel quite sore and irritated down below. I also have a clear discharge with no scent. Is this normal after not having sex for so long? ...

How long can a guy hold out for not having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - does it matter how long a guy lasts depending on how often he has sex? I mean, if a guy claims to not have had sex for a long time, but can hold out for quite a while, is that normal?...

I lose my erection when its time for sex! Why does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Okay here is the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 6 months now, and its time for sex. But my penis (Uncircumcised) has a problem, it will be hard in the pants but when it comes out it gets soft. This also happens sometimes when i ...

Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly? Please someone put m...

I love him but does he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for several months. I lost my virginity to him hoping we will end up dating but he said he just got out of a 3 year relationship. I dont really know why, but I kept on sleeping with him for 2 months. I know it was stupid, ...

When I try to get intimate I am often pushed away. I'm so frustrated with our sex life! Is it because of his premature ejaculation and what can be done about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hi! My name is Jayne and am extremely fustrated with my love life. Here's the situation--my boyfriend of a little over 6 months does not want to ever have sex--it's like pulling teeth or something. In all other aspects of our relationship ...

Unsafe sex 12 days before my period, can I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I had unsafe sex 12 days before my period,can i be pregnant...

I've been doing Kegel exercises to help with the pain during sex caused by my prolapsed uterus. Is this all I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - i just had my second child which has left my uterus prolapsed. It hurts when I have sex with my husband. I have brought it up to the doctor, tell them that I am doing the kegel exercise, but then it seems like they drop it. Like the only thing to ...

My friendship with a late 50s man has become sexual. He's married and I am getting over sexual abuse in my past. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I'm good friends with a man who's in his late fifties and have been for quite some time. Since about April time this year, we've been seeing each other once or twice a week and been sexual. Although we've only had sexual intercourse twice, we've ...

Can she still get pregnant or is her period just coming slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, i have a question and i need some answers here...My girlfriend and i had sex last month 4 days before her period(28 day cycle) but she had a NORMAL period and then she ovulated again this month around the 11th(her period was the whole ...

Swinger's story: We are two married couples that exchanged partners but we handled it badly; bitterness and fights followed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - We started out as friends. Five years ago, we were a DINK couple who doted their two kids and found the parents to be sincere, loving, simple but honest. Over time we got to know each other even better when we were between houses and moved in with ...

Discharge, abdominal pains, pain during and after sex ! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I am really freaked out! For the past few months my sex life has been really bad;I get horny and that but the sex isn't good anymore..I have also been getting strange,smelly discharge, abdominal pains, pain during and after sex and I don't seem to ...

Does he want me? He said he could no longer see me pretexting that my ex is in prison, but he does come round once a week and has sex with me!?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I met a young man about 3 months ago we are both in our early 20's, at first glance he wasn't my type but we went out a couple of times and i realised he was such a lovely person inside and we started spending time with each other and sleeping ...

We've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, I don't dare to please him in case it goes wrong and he thinks differently of me! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - wel me and my boyfriend have been together alomst a year, and we've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, but im scared, and i havnt done anything to him either wich im also scared about incase it goes wrong and he thinks different of me, ...

Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I want to do sexual intercourse with my girlfriend in a hotel. Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room? May I arrested by the police?...

Should I end this before I do something bad...or should I stick it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend thinks the world of me. He cries when he talks about how much he loves me, and there is no doubt in my mind that I love him too. We finish eachother's sentences and take the words from eachother's mouths. It feels as though we've rea...

I am beginning to wonder if she is not being true to her word. Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - hello all. My ex and I are going to see each other soon and are going to see if we cant maybe fire things up again. Because of this we have both decided to stop with our current flings to keep things good between us and get rid of any jelousy.Our ...

I love him but I can't get turned on to him! Help-any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I use to be very sexually active with my husband but now it just went away. I still find him very attractive and i love him more then anything, but i just cant figure out why i cant get turned on. I've tried role playing, using toys and even ...

Is there a chance my girlfriend could be pregnant even though she had a normal period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hello, i need some help...Ok i am currently 19 yrs old, and my gf and i had sex 4 days before her period, which comes every 28 days...So which means she ovulates two weeks before her period...Well we had sex 4 days before her period, had her period ...

How do I warn my friend about the dangers of STDs? She won't listen to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - So my friend has been going out with her current boyfriend for 6 months and recently started going farther and farther but not in like a"I'm getting ready to sleep with you way," but I know either, or both of them (I don't know who's done what) have ...

Our sex life is boring - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 424 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Basically ive been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half and were both only 18 so its early times still. we recently got our first house and everything is great. However our sex life is extremely boring she just hasn't got any sex drive anymor...

How do I fill my mother in about wanting to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hey im only 16 and me and my bf are wanting to have sex. were both virgins and my mom freaked out when she found out the he was massaging my boobs when we made out. im just wondering when to tell my mom of my thoughts and how me and my bf want to ...

I've been having an affair with an older woman, now my girlfriend has asked me to marry her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I'm 23 years old, and have been in a steady relationship for 2 years now. However, for the last 6 months I have been having an affair with an older women. She's 45, and I know that there's no future with this woman, but I enjoy her company. My gi...