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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He has a big problem! Is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for just over a year but in the same relationship for 16 years. This sounds crazy but my husband and I have just stopped having sex - initially I just put it down to stressful jobs (investment banking)and the associated fatigue ...

I feel confused and alone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I am completly in love with my husband who recently blind-sided me (at 5 weeks pregnant) by telling me that he does not love me anymore. We have been married for almost 3 years, but in a relationship for 6. All along he has wanted kids and was (or ...

32 year old christian virgin - should I lose it in Amsterdam?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 32 Christian male, single (and have always been) and still a virgin. All my friends are getting married and I feel left behind. I've never been very out-going and this "no-sex-before-marriage" thing is engrained in me but recently getting ...

Is my husbands fetish normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I have a question about a weird fetish my husband has developed in the last few months. Lately, instead of us having intercourse, he likes to watch me have intercourse with a vibrator instead while he holds it. Is this normal, and if so why does he ...

Could this just be some sort of phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My brother-in-law told me he loves me, and that he always has. We were friends before my husband and I met. Back then I had feelings for him, and he had feelings for me, but we both had too much pride to do anything about it. So I moved on and got ...

Planning a romantic weekend soon. Is there a way to induce my period to get it now, before I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy on the weekend. We're long distance and only see each other once every month or 2. We haven't had sex yet and I'm pretty sure we were going to this weekend. Normally my period is on time every month, the 5th or the 6th, but I ...

Could I have given my boyfriend genital herpes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday night I gave my boyfriend oral sex. I get coldsores, and he knows, and we never do oral sex whilst I've got one. But I woke up this morning, and I had the beginnings of one. I hadn't felt the tell tale tingling though. I'm really worried ...

I am having severe difficulties overlooking my girlfriend's past sex life!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm going to get strait to the point, I am having severe difficulties overlooking my gf's past sex life. She has told me that she slept with around 20 people, mostly within a couple of years. She has also told me some of the details t...

Does he have feelings for me that go beyond friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My friend with benefits (that Ive been seeing for the past 9m) and I have become best friends and have told each other we love each other in the context of friends. From the start he said we could never be anything more than friends because ...

My girlfriend denies me sex. She says she's a virgin but has also been a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girl friend denies me of sex with her. She claims to be a virgin, only to find out she has been a lesbian. I am disappointed. What do I do?...

How often do women think of their previous lovers? I'm worried she will compare me to her ex'es!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I have been dating a girl and we had sex for the first time the other day but I came really quick and I don't think she was satisfied. I was a virgin before that but she had slept with other guys. I just want to know, will she be comparing me with...

Does it hurt if a man gets an erection and is not relieved by ejaculation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hi. If a man gets an erection and it is not realieved by ejaculation. Does it hurt?...

After having a baby, I find that I have lost interest in sex, and having intercourse causes me pain, why is that and what do I do to regain interest in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've been seing someone for almost 8 years now and things have been really great between us and we have a 2 year old daughter, but my problem started after I had a baby. I lost interest on everything especially when coming to satisfying my man in ...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, but without having sex, she says she doesn't want to be end up like her mother, who did not attend college, married her dad, and are struggling now, is this just an excuse, not to have sex, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girl have been dating for a while. I've given her oral but she's never for me. I don't expect her too though, I consider myself lucky that she even touches me. It's not that I'm bad looking it's just that she's so amazing. Anyway, the ...

How would I tell her that I want to start going further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hi. Im a 15 year old boy and my girlfriend is 14(turning 15 in December). We've been dating for about 5 months now. We do i guess the regular dating activies like kissing and making out and stuff... but i kinda want to move a little bit further like ...

Would I still be considered a virgin...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - This guy that i kinda like was over at my house and we were thinking about having sex, but when he started it hurt really bad, and after about a minute or two of trying i just couldnt handle the pain anymore, so i made him stop. Am i still cons...

How can I best talk to my girlfriend about "oral"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - How can I bring up the topic of oral with my girlfriend. I've been touching her for months and she's started touching me lately. I just recently started giving her oral but she hasn't made any move to try it on me. I don't want to make it sound like ...

I started giving her oral then realized I really had no idea what I was doing....please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here. For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can'...