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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I feel used by three boys all wanting sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity last year and ive slept with 2 more guys since that, i know it sounds bad being 15 and slept with 3 boys. But its messed me up compleatly, the 1st boy i still talk to and im in lessons with him and everything, but he doesnt know ...

My boyfriend doesn't always cum during sex, does he have a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend doesnt always cum during sex does he have a problem? ...

Would it be more pleasurable without the condom???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I've been having regular intercourse with my boyfriend for a few months now. He always wears a condom. Whilst I do enjoy it I was wondering if I'd get even more pleasure if I used contraception and felt his semen when he has his orgasm....

I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong? you have to take into account that i had a relationship with him for 4 months and then we had sex because we were in love and i still love him but i aint seen him for two years ...

Shall I pleasure her downwards or upwards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Hello. Quick question if I may about oral sex and pleasuring women. Do most women prefer their clitoral hood being licked downwards - or upwards? Problem with the former is that the man cannot see his lover's face when he's pleasuring her - though ...

I've always used a condom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I've had sex many times but only using condom. the skin on the top of my penis is still intact, the one that is cut in many people when they are young(circumcision).(e.g. most jewish people)... Is this skin cut when you have sex without cond...

Why can he get hard and finish to porn but not me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - My husband has type 2 diabetes and cant get it up for me. He takes the pills to help with that and can sometimes get half way hard by that. But he has not been able to finish with me for about six months. My thing is he can get him self hard and ...

What is this stuff material around my clit, after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - sometimes after i have sex and dnt shower after.. ( which is not often i do btw) i get this white stuff around my clit what is this? it goes away after i shower and its fien. it doesnt hurt or anythin. Please help x...

Tips about intimacy with my husband? I am sexually frustrated but most of all I am hurt that he doesn't care enough to give me affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Hi all I need some advice on how to improve sex/intimacy with my husband. ( He's 37, I am 30. No kids. )We've been together for 8 years and we love each other to bits. All is well except when it comes to sex and affection. He has always had trou...

How do I tell her to improve her hygiene?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a problem wich is kinda acward... My GF´S... Private part smells realy bad and when im "downstairs", shure i can make it, I made it once but its realy a anticlimax, I cant tell her or suggest she could be a little "cleaner" its just... I ...

Exactly how painful is it to lose your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - What does it feel like to lose your virginity? I'm a smaller girl, and came close to losing it once, but it hurt too much for him to completely penetrate me, so I asked him to stop. I've heard it's painful, but I've heard it described to be en...

Can I continue making her cum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - I have been lucky enough to be able to make my first (and older) GF cum every time we have sex. Usually within minutes, so I was quite surprised many females have never experienced this pleasure and my GF who has had several partners previously, ...

How do I give her a "screaming orgasm"???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Hi, i have either a very usual or unusual question. I dont know how to give my GF a "screaming orgasm" I mean, i have given her one but it isnt enough... She doesnt cum and doesnt moan like my friends say she sould. The way i do is just rub my ...

Question about sperm longevity---can someone clarify?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been reading other entries and many people have been saying different things in regards to how long sperm can stay alive outside the body. I have read seconds, 2 minutes and even 72 hours....can someone please clarrify?? ...

He can't even get it up with me but after, he'll go watch porn and have no problem with erections!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Why does my husband like porn more than me? He can't even get it up with me any more. He is not able to finish with me any more either. Is the real thing not better any more? How do I get him to want me instead of it. Every time I tell him he has a ...