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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My brother-in-law told me he loves me, and that he always has. We were friends before my husband and I met. Back then I had feelings for him, and he had feelings for me, but we both had too much pride to do anything about it. So I moved on and got married, my husband and I argue alot and often dont have a lot to talk about. I still think I have feeling for my brother in law as he has feelings for me, and I swore I would never be one to cheat, but I cheated on my husband with his brother. The thing is, is that we have feelings for eachother, and I don't know what to do. I feel like such a horrible person, but honestly my husband feels more like a really good friend to me than a lover. Oh please help me. Please! What should I do? Im I really in love with my brother in law or could this just be some sort of phase? What can I do? Should I tell my husband I cheated on him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Hi this is in response to your answer to my question. Ok we have two children together, and my husband is gone alot, and my brother in law works days, but...he lives with us, and he's single. I think my brother in law and I just keep falling deeper and deeper into this and it is killing me! When my husband is at home he's just pissy most of the time. I try so hard to love him, but I just don't feel about him the way I do, and as for my brother in law and I probably can't ever happen because you are right...shit will definatly hit the fan.
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