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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't know if my wife and I will ever have sexual relations again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Well,Cupid, I doubt that even your strongest arrow can solve this problem. Oh. I hear the reply. "Whatever could be wrong?" It's kind of straight forward. The usual, man meets woman, woman and man marry, woman all the sudden doesn't want to ...

I've been stressed out for a few days now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have been stressed a few days now.. about 2 weeks ago, I tried to finger my gf but she said it hurt so I stopped like probably 1cm in. And then afterwards, I rubbed my penis on the outside of her vagina for like 5 seconds. I rubbed it before c...

He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it ...

Could I get pregnant if he cums on my stomach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I hope no one thinks this is a stupid question but can I get pregnant doing this? I've been messing around with this guy recently. We always use condoms during sex but he takes it off at the end and cums on my stomach area. I've never had a guy do ...

My fiance had threesomes in the past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????...

Recently my sex drive has just disappeared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I am 25. Recently however, my sex drive has just disappeared. Whenever he initiates sex, I get shivers down my spine and it just doesn't feel right. I avoid having sex now, and feel terrible for it. I ...

Why can't he cum from oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been sexual active for a few weeks. but every time i give him a blow job, he just doesn't seem to cum. he has even told me that when he gets home and if he is still hard he can cum there, just not with me. is it me that's the ...

Am I pregnant already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Okay I have been on ortho trycyclin lo which a birth control pilland then i was forgetting to take it all the time so i switched to the nuva ring which you stick in you once a month and take out the week of you period...well i decided i wanted to ...

I feel so completely insecure sexually with her now, and suspicious of her reasons of being with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Dear everyone. I think I am at a about to end my relationship with my girlfriend, but I really wish I could just get over this problem instead. I have become uncontrollably jealous and insecure in this relationship and regardless of what it takes, ...

My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep. When I wake up he laughs and says he's just joking around and I tell him to stop, but this is the second time it's happend. What should I do?...

I've to meet my ex as he badly needs a blowjob! Is he serious???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hiya, I've just got off the phone to my ex boyfriend, he dumped me to go back to his ex, anyway cut a long story short they're not together yet but spending all their spare time together as basically she doesn't trust him, he cheated on her (not ...

I'm HIV positive and I'm only 16!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 11 I was always on the pill but never used condoms I recently found out that I have HIV and I don't know what to say to my mum, she will kill me! I thought I was pregnant but the results came back as that ...

What is happening to me, why am I getting so stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Right, so I'm sixteen. I used to be boys 24/7, and when I was fourteen, I watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend. I know, you'll say "underage" and stuff, but just don't. But, the lesbian porn REALLY turned me on. I used to get off to thinking abou...

Why is he behaving so strangely? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 389 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for 9 months. We are both christians and I know he fears God and so Do I. I am 35 and he is 51. I understand that things will be a little different as far as sex drive. I had issues when it started to dwindle and he did not ...

I'm 23 and have never given a blowjob. Will someone please tell me how ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Ok, this is very embarrassing for me but it's something that bothers me......alot! I am 23 years old and don't know how to give a blow job for the life of me. I have had relationships in the past and they have never mentioned it, but i know myself i ...

I had a total hystorectomy about 8 years ago, I would love to get my sex drive back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I had a total hystorectomy about 8 years ago. This seriously affected my sex drive which just seems to have frittered away to nothing now. Doctor has put me on HRT but doesn't seem to be making a difference. This is seriously starting to ...

One orgasm in 2 months !!! Help !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death but there is just one problem... I been with him 4 a couple months now but we have known each other for 10 years and in those months I have only had one orgasm...ONE!!! and that's because I was on top... I fake it every ...

Pregnant and confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Im in love, and i have a boyfriend, Im in love with my boyfriends best mate, and i think he likes me 2!! im paranoid my boyfriend is going to cheat on me, is that just because i know how i feel for his friend? and to top it all off i think im ...

Should we have a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - my wife of 8 years is now fantasising about her having me and another man , when we have sex she gets really turned on talkin about taking 2 of us in both holes at once , the talk gets dirtier as we progress , should i give her ,her ultimate and ...

Confused and unsure of my sexual orientation...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I really do not know what my sexual orientation is. I mean, i thought i was straight, then i thought that i was bi-curious, but im not sure. when im online, and i meet new people, i prefer girls and they have to look attractive. but i date guys. ...

Help! I can't hold an erection!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I am 22 and and been having sex with the same girl for more than 3 years. At first, my main problem was that I would cum within minutes of having sex. There was always foreplay. We always started having sex when I was fully erected as well. I still ...

Why is my boyfriend unattracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and i have just recently found out that he no longer finds me attractive sexually. At first i was devestaed as i am already quite self concious. However he explained that he was still in live ...

Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...

How do I get more comfortable with sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in a new relationship...about 3 months old and my boyfriend is ready to have sex but im not sure that i am ready. I am a virgin...well he penetrated one time and there was some blood but he didnt penetrate again because I was nervous. I can ...

Do girls like giving oral sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Do girls actually enjoy giving oral sex? Or do they feel obligated to do it?...

Am I still a virgin? We had anal sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I'm a freshman in at a catholic school college and I am catholic. I want to save myself for marriage, but one night me and this girl (we were both drunk) went to my room and started making out. One thing led to another and our cloths were off. I ...

Why does he still have these nude pictures of his ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lets me use his computer for school. Well one day he left his email up and i saw an email he sent himself back in June (we had been together 6 months then---it's almost 11 months now) it had 4 pics attached, so naturally i assumed it ...

Should I take his virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I don't believe in waiting till marraige and that abstinance crap. I know that in this era, no one's gunna make it till marraige. everyone has an urg, and at some point ur gunna give. But my boyfirend is still a virgin and his friends all tell him ...

How do I tell my selfish boyfriend that I want to get something out of sex without sounding selfish myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had a great sex life until the past coupld of months (we have been together almost 11 months). Used to, he would make sure I got what I wanted out of sex first then he'd take what he wanted. He would tell me "Honey, ...

Why do some guys feel guilty after the first time they masturbate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Why is it that most guys that have sex their first time, feel guilty after they cum? Many have told me after they masturbate they feel kinda guilty.. why is this?...

I want a gf but can't ask one out! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - why is it that i wanna girl friend so bad yet could never ask one out. i wanna have sex but im scared to do so ...