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writes:My girl friend denies me of sex with her. She claims to be a virgin, only to find out she has been a lesbian. I am disappointed. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Stop pressuring her. A girl's virginity isn't something we'll throw out at you guys to get,it's serious. If you really care about her,you'll wait for her,no matter how long it may be. What's dissapointing about being a lesbian? (if that's what you're disappointed about) Be glad she's with you now. Let her get to know her sexuality.
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reader, urchjain +, writes (6 October 2008):
urchjain is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDearcupid, I really appreciate this forum.That was my first quetion on line ever.thanks for the quick feedback.I will advice others to make use of this.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Dont preshure her into anything, if she has been a lesbian/is bisexual then whats to say she hasnt ever had sex with a man? in that respect she is still a virgin, and that not somthing most girls will give up lightly.
Just show her that you care/love her and all will hapen in due corse. Putting preshure on her to have sex will also put preshure on the relationship and you may end up loosing her... and you dont want that do you?
Forget about her past, shes with you now and thats all that matters right? you have no reason to be dissopointed in her.
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