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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I am put off by the thought of penetrative sex but enjoy oral. Does anyone else feel like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Im just over 40 and still a virgin, in the sence of penetration sex, for some reason the thought, puts me off, im ok with oral sex both ways and mutual masturbation, but find it hard to go any further, i know this isnt normal, Has anyone else felt...

I am a virgin, how can I tell him I am not ready for sex, without losing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy at my school who I want to be my first. People have said that he only wants me b/c im a virgin that's very "blessed" in the way im shaped, front and back. I know for a fact that he doesn't act the same towards me as he did the other ...

Sex 3 times in 15 years of marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - We have been married 15 years, We had romance and a lot of passionate sex prior to marriage, my husband was using meth at the time on occasion. On our wedding night no loving sex at all. From then sex only 3 times in the whole 15 years. I am very ...

How can I spice things up in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hey all. Just looking for some advice. basically I need some help on spicing up my sex life! I can't believe I am asking this at 20 years old!!! We have been together 3 years, he is 30. Recently we have gone through a rocky time, I just lost someone ...

I feel slightly inexperienced compared to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with a totally awesome guy, he treats me right, spoils me, and he loves me as much as I love him... He is also a really attentive lover, but that's not the point, he's the same age as me, but I found out his ex was an ...

Sexless Marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I are in our early 30's. We've only been married one year (exactly). We've only had sex 3 times in our year of marriage. All three times we were drunk. We have no romance in our marriage, we barely touch or hang out, and it seems like ...

She enjoys sex in public!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - She likes the thrill of having sex in public and won't have sex with me in the comfort of our own home I get a thrill as well but sometimes I love to be at home so we can cuddle and lay with each other after sex.... I'm not asking for too much am ...

Boy "A" doesn't know a thing about boy "B"... who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..! I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (b...

I really fancy my close friend's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - There is this super hot and sexy boy that I like. He plays soccer and has good grades and did I mention that he is hot? Well I really like him and he knows it and I also happen to know that he likes me. There's one problem, he has a girlfriend and ...

Is there a pill that induces abortion? My period is usually heavy at first, but now is very light. What could be causing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I know that you can still be pregnant while on your period, but I was wondering if it could be something else because my period is very light which is weird cause its usually heavy at first. I was wondering if it could be the way Im eating, ...

I love my girlfriend but don't really enjoy having sex with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend and find her very attractive, but for some reason I don't really enjoy having sex with her. I can orgasm when she gives me a handjob or oral, but I never have been able to orgasm from sex with her or any girlfriend I've ...

Any advice on anal sex? I'm scared I might poo!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I have tried anal sex a few times.There were on a few occasions that after my guy pulls it out there will be "air" coming out which is similar to passing air.But i know for sure that its not me.Im guessing its because of the thrusting of the penis ...

I slept with the guy I like's roomate! How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - like a year ago (nov), i met B, who i worked with at a pub, i was very shy at first and i liked him, i used to hang out with him and his two roomates and party at there apartment after work, now i always had a thing for ben, but i befriended his ...

How do I guide my boyfriend during sex so that I feel pleasure, too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - male comments please :) Im in a relationship with a guy we have been dating for 3 months and our anniversary is tomorrow, i am young, and people usually look down upon sexual activities at such a young age. any ways, when my boyfriend and i ...

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me with a cyber-lover. What do I do? We have two children together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I caught my fiancee trying to cheat on me. She'd been cybering guys on the net for a while (one on which worried me because he was a local) I told her this upset me but just accepted it as a bit of fun. I told her not to give her phone number to ...

Having a smaller-than-average penis, can I find women willing to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Is it worth trying to find a woman this day and age, that is interested in a "commitment relationship" when you only have a 4" penis? ...

I'm worried in case he can't deal with a-few-times-a-month sex, but there are past issues that inhibit my desire. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I have been best friends with someone for 9 years, dating for 5 years, married for 3 months. Both he and I are in our 20s. I really love him with all that I have, but we don't get "intimate" too often. We work similar schedules, but he always ...

How can I get into a strip club?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I am only 18 years old, but I am wondering what I could possibly do to get into a strip club?...

Is it true that having sex in the early weeks of a pregnancy can increase the risk of miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I've posted on here previously about having had a couple of miscarriages this year. I was speaking with a friend recently who happens to be pregnant - she's had a couple of he incidents with bleeding although so far everything seems fine thank ...

We lost out virginity to each other, I want to do it again but I'm not sure he feels the same, he's been different - what should I think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were officially together for 3 weeks when we had sex for the first time. i know it was too soon but we both really wanted it. we were both also virgins. after that we didnt see each other for four weeks. and we still havent had ...

I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...

I can tell her what I want to do on the phone, but when it comes to actually doing it I feel worried she won;t be satisfied, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 401 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - ok...well both me and my gf r both virgins and have decided 2 have sex...the thing is that i can tell her what i want 2 do to her over the phone...but when i think about actually doing it i feel unconfident...i think that when i do those things 2 ...