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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Period was due 2 weeks ago and nothing has appeared! Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I know that many of you have probably heard all this before but I'm worried I might be pregnant. I had unprotected sex about a month ago and I'm on no sort of permanent contraception. I was due on my period 2 weeks ago and yet nothing has appeared. ...

He keeps asking for sex. Do you think I should have sex or should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my BF for 5 months and we have known each other for 1 and half years. We have not have sex yet. But we have french kissed and cuddled. He keeps asking for sex. He says that we should take it further because it is a ...

What's the big deal? She won't let me see her naked.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) is through this phase thinking she's fat (trust me she's not). And because of it she won't let me see her naked anymore. We do make out but she lets got to the point where I can't control myself. Only she gain ...

Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...

Is there something wrong with me? I can't orgasm....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i have this problem, during sex and foreplay i dont have the ability to have an orgasm, however i can feel it before but then the feeling just goes even if it feels appsolutely amazing. even if its after half an hour to an hour still nothing ...

Is four months long enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i have been with a guy for nearly 4 months and im happy but he is asking about sex. im not sure if im ready and is 4 months long enough?? its just that everytime we're alone together we come so close to having it and i have to stop because im not ...

I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life. I have a girlfriend and I want to have sex with her but I'm not confident enough. It's not that I have a small penis, it's that I have tight forskin and cannot ejaculate yet. ...

Meds for sex...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Please suggest some medicine by which any lady gets horny and ready for sex?...

How can I make the sex more satisfying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a female, I being a female myself and I just need some help or adivice. Well we recently started having sex and I was wondering how could I make it more satisfying for me? I don't know why but for some reason it isn't as ...

How common is it for a woman to be able to orgasm through penetration alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Just a quick survey: I have heard that about 80% of women can’t orgasm through penetrative intercourse alone. I have been with one girl who could and one who couldn’t. So in my very limited experience it’s about 50/50. What do you thin...

Is he falling for me? He says he doesn't want anything serious....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i met a guy we are in the same grad school program together and because of this we see each other everyday. We started getting close and becoming really good friends and one night we had sex. Since then we have had sex a few times. I really like ...

In a polyamourus relationship and my female lover is pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been part of a Polyamourus relationship for 5 months now, my girlfriend is married to my best friend and I love her very much. Her husband is completely understanding as he has a girlfriend of his own, and we do nothing that he doesn't know ...

Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...

Is it legal to have sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 17 year old girl and seriously in love with a 27 year old. Is it legal if I have sex with him as I love him so much and hes been saying no to me. Pls help. anonymous....

He cheats with his ex constantly. Puzzled and confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - So here's the case. My boyfriend and I have already been dating for almost 7months, actually it's our monthsary tomorrow. He has been with his ex for almost 4 years, though within that 4 years he's constantly cheating with that girl. I always ...

My gf doesn't want sex that much...has the spark gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and at the moment I feel like we are an old married couple. We only have sex once a week, when we do it is amazing but it leaves me wanting more. We are only young after all! We have tried all sorts of things ...

How long after taking the last pill does your period come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I recently started taking the contraceptive pill last month and have finished my 21 pills. I was wondering how long after taking the last pill does your period come? Thankyou ...

Which cousin should I have sex with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i was dating two guys who are often cousins, they are both very cute, and looks alike, they speaks the same way and has similar characters, the problem is i love both both the very same way and i do not want to let go of any of them. but then ...

Am I too tight or is he too soft?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I tried to have sex with my first bf a year ago, only he couldnt seem to enter me. But then i tried it with someone over the summer and it actually worked, so i figured problem solved. Except now the problem is back. And this time im in a ...

Can anyone tell me if this is an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a loving relationship for 5 years and we are both very open minded where sex is concerned but i'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm. (Please don't reply you'll know if you've had one - that doesn't help). I get to a point where...

I can't orgasm. How is it done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i dont know if this is normal or not. But I have been sexually active for about 5 years and i have a boyfriend and we engage in sexual activity often. I have never been able to cum. And i mean Never. Even if hes doing all he can to satisfy me he ...

If we are just going out, what can I do to get her in the mood for sexual things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - How do I sexually turn on a girl??? for example, my friend and I were hanging out together, and me being a guy, i was basically turned on by looking at her, lol. However, she did not want to do anything sexual that night. My question is, if ...

Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely t...

Angry because he won't have sex but he still masturbates daily! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm angry at my boyfriend, he masturbates daily and lies about it. We don't have sex anymore and when I ask him about it he comes up with a different answer every time. I don't know if he's lying or not. We are always talking about breaking up and ...

My gf's sex drive is lower than mine! Is that unusual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Im 29 and my girlfriend of two years is 34, she is rarely the one to initiate sex and seems to have a lower sex drive than me. recently she told me that she could go months without needing an orgasm, but she has one nearly every time that we have ...

I have an unusual vagina opening..what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - well, i'll start here, i love my boyfriend. i'm almost 17, and he wants to get engaged, i know, sounds soon, but we really love each other and we've known each other since the beginning of january, fallen in love. me and him, we can read each ...

She just told me she was forced to go down on a guy, how long do I have to wait to ask her to go down on me again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Over the course of our 13 month relationship my GF has gone down me maybe 10 times, and only once did she stick it out til I came. She swallowed, and it was glorious. When I ask her to do it, she usually obliges, but rarely initiates it her...

My anus is bleeding from a foreign object. Too embarrassed to go to the doctor..will I be ok?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I am a young woman. I have stuck a foreign object in my anus and it started bleeding last night. It is still bleeding when i try and make bowl movements. Its only been a day but i am worried that it will keep bleeding. I know i probably only ripped ...

I'm 2 days late! Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 my boyfriend and I had protected sex almost a month ago now I'm supposed to be on my period but I'm 2 days late and really worried I know it sounds bad and yes my parents are very religious...I have been with him for more then a year and it ...