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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is coitus interuptus rude?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I know a long list of people are going to tell me to use a condom but will ask this anyway. Is it rude for a guy to pull out and cum all over you if birth control wasn't discussed before sex? I say it is and he says it isn't....

How can I make my husband feel more attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - This has happened thrice to me now. My husband shows interest in having sex before I put our son to bed and later when I go take a shower (I always do b4 having sex) and come back all ready for him, he is already sleeping or is just about to ...

Could holding my breath for 15 seconds affect my unborn baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Will it affect my baby if ocasionally I don't breathe for like 15 seconds.... it's during intercourse... I have stopped but I'm almost four months, will my baby be challenged?...

I'm terrified of losing my virginity.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and everything is going so well. It couldn't be going better except for one thing; I'm a virgin and am still scared of losing my virginity. My boyfriend has been so understanding, and we ...

Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...

My partner is in Iraq at present and I am missing him so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My partner is currently in Iraq at present and I'm missing him so bad its unbelievible! We love each other and we are the practically the same person we are that much alike... The problem is the intimate times we have together are mind blowing, ...

He fantisizes about me when we are apart. Does that mean he only wants me for the sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for ...

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

He took my virginity but he'd already slept with 7 other girls!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Dear cupids. My boyfriend lied to me for 8 months about being a virgin, but then after he took my virginity he confessed to previousy sleeping with 7 girls!! He told me he didn't want to hurt my feelings, which he did twice as much by lying! W...

He used to have chlamydia but he says it's gone now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - This might sound like a daft question but does chlamydia come and go? I know he HAD it, but he said he doesn't now :s does it just go? or does he still have it?? He wants me to sleep with him but I'm really unsure about him although I do like him, ...

A threesome gone wrong!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hi.. I had this crazy idea once to have a threesome. I was really drunk and so we had a threesome, me my boyfriend and another guy. I love him with my whole heart and I felt really bad about it the next day, since he said at the beginning he didn...

His porn watching is affecting our sex life in a detrimental way.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too but our sex life has always been dysfunctional and at times non existent. I am 21 and he is 43, he has some trouble maintaining an erection and ...

During sex, should I put up with the pain to please him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and i recently lost my virginity to my 17 year old bf of 3 years. My problem is that i enjoyed my 1st time (and the other time after that) but i'm very tight so i experience a lot of pain during and after it. My bf luvs that ...

I have noticed his sex drive has decreased. What is the probelm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My husband is 52 yrs old and i am 44 yrs old, we got married 9 yrs ago. For the past few yrs. I have noticed his sex drive has decreased. We used to be intimate twice a week and now is once or twice a month. As a women I take care of myself and ...

He's well endowed..how can I handle him comfortably in regards to oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 397 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - my problem is that my fiance and i recently started to get intimate. yes, he is well endowed,but ive learned to handle that. what i havent learned to handle is giving him fellatio. he is often aggressive,and sometimes tries to deep-throat me and ...

Why does my wife want to "just play" and not have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - all my wife wants to do is give me head or jerk me off and all i want is to touch her but when i do she says no or stop i dont want to have sex i just want to play to it feels like its been like this for months ...

Lost my virginity to him but I think ...he gave me a STD!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy who I lost my virginity to for 6 months. Before I went to the doctor, I had sex with him about 10 times. I went over the summer and she said everything looked fine and I was negative for ghonnehrea and chlamydia. I also ...