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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I have this friend with benefits but he's changed lately... what's the matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I have this friend with benefits, he's great, I fell in love with him, but he doesn't want anything serious and neither do I, we have tons of fun and I love everything about the "relationship". It's been a while since we don't sleep together or ...

I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I...

I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Okay this is wierd for me I am a total control freak about everything but for some reason I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex and even a little pain is great. I get off being held in lock holds and am totally confused by ...

Could my boyfriend be a carrier of an std?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are thinking about having unprotected sex, I'm on the pill so I know it's highly unlikely I'll get pregnant, but I'm worried about STD's. I've decided to get myself checked out just to make myself happy, but my boyfriend claims ...

She had an abortion the first time but now she's pregnant again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had sex not too long ago and we've realised she is pregnant, the first time this happened she got an abortion. I'm not ready to have a kid right now and she is and I don't want to break her heart again - what do I do?...

Why do I black out when having an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I'm sure I'm not the only one but I swear I haven't seen this on this site...and i need help so here we go... Recently me and my boyfriend have "got close" and on quite a few of these occassions when it has come to orgasm i have blacked out/ fai...

She wants me to pee on her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - I've got a weird problem and that is why I wanna remain anonymous, my gf has a weird mind as the other day we were having sex and after sex I was going to go to the toilet and pee and she told me not to go to the toilet as she wanted me to pee on ...

2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...

He got what he wanted... SEX! So why is he still crazy about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I'm 18 years old. I wanted to stay a virgin until I was 18. I'm not unattractive and I've had a few boyfriends that wanted to have sex but I wanted to wait. Well I had a heart break the day of my 18th birthday, so a little over a month later I ...

I'm starting to think my wife is shallow and my penis size and our sex life is the only reason that we are together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - My wife and I are recently married. I think things are going good, but I have a nagging concern about her that bothers me. We had a discussion about her old boyfriends, and she was nasty talking about 2, and a little I don't know, like, happy ...

What do guys think about "squirting"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - A while back after my bf and I had sex, he asked me "Did you squirt?" so I lied and said yes but he replied indifferently, saying "Thats cool" What did he think of this, was he turned off or turned on or just not care? What do you guys think of ...

Help me please .... Am I pregnant ?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hello , I am 21 years old and I am virgin before 3 days I did anal sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in my anus. my period is coming every 28 days and at the 15 we had sex. From that day tell now I feel nauseous and if I eat anything I w...

Can someone help answer my question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hi, the story goes like this. A few days back when I was about to have sex with my girlfriend when my dick was touching my gf vagina, I did not go in because my girlfriend suddenly move away so we tried the second time and if fails again because ...

What are little things to turn him on in and outside the bedroom? I am to show I want him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Please could you help me turn my boyfriend on, in and out of the bedroom. The other day, he said he thinks i dont enjoy having sex with him and that if it wasn't for him, we would never have sex as he is always the one who makes the first move. I ...

What did my husband's odd dream about me and another man...really mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - my husband is impotent, but recently I found out he was in contact by facebook and mobile with an ex girlfriend, who he says he never spoke to just texted and never met up although there was talk, did I stop him before he started an affair, also ...

Am I over reacting to this pic? Or is this really as bad as I think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I need some advice on online dating. I just started dating again ...so i'm am new to what is acceptable or not. Recently i set up a profile on a decent website. I have gotten a lot of responses However, one person in particular caught my eye...

How long do I need to wait until I bleed again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - i am a girl. i hve a bf with whom i had sex.when i had sex for the first time i bleeded. later i didnt. but now we broke up and i am engaged with someone else and i dont want him to know that i am not a virgin.so, after how much gap of time or perio...

We broke up but he said we can still be sex buddies!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys on Sunday I split with my boyfriend of 8 months, the reason was he wasnt over his ex of four years and the mother of his child, he says he likes me but doesn't love me like he still loves her, anyway he said I can still ring him and go out ...

What makes a man unable to keep an erection, could it be nerves?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - What makes a man unable to keep an erection, could it be nerves?...

I don't want a relationship with him, just sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I am in love with a guy whom I hardly know, we go to the same university. He is also interested in me but all I want from him is not a relationship with with him but just sex. How am I going to explain this to him when he asks me out for a ...

He can't enter me... am I too tight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Every time I try to have sex, the guy can't seem to enter me :( I don't know if it's because I'm too tight, or he doesn't get hard enough, but it's happened with more than one guy, so I'm guessing I'm the problem. What can I do? How can I make it ...

He doesn't seem to be the same now that we've had sex. Was I used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online a year ago and we have become fast friends. He lives 5 hours away but we text and chat on the phone and I tell him my dating woes, etc. We finally decided we loved each other and we'd see what happened when we got together. ...

I recently overheard my partner and her ex discussing intimate details of our relationship and poking fun at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I recently overheard my partner and her ex discussing intimate details of our relationship and poking fun at me. This was after I had told my partner that I did not feel comfortable having her ex in our home for "coffee" whilst no one was here. I ...

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

I think about my best friend's boyfriend more than I do my partner.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - OK THIS IS ALL WIRED I NEED HELP!!! OK so my best friend's boyfriend an I have been having an affair for 5 years now, he's been with her about 7 years, and I been with mine ten years. We both love the sex he tells me he loves it when he's sleeping...

Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men. Help? Should you do things differently than with a circumcised penis? How? Please, help me out. Tips/techniques/general things to know are all welcome, as are websites. Thank you....

What does it feel like when you're about to orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi so yeah embarrassing in a way but i was wondering like i know some girls can cum, and my boyfriend recently starting eating me out i guess you can say and he said he wants me to finish[cum] but he said i end up not doing it. but i mean i dont ...

Is he just using me for pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Lately I've been having sexual intercourse with someone all the time who happens to be my ex. Me and him were together for about a year, but then he broke up with me because he didn't want to be "tied down", and just wanted to remain friends with ...