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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He went to go down on me and then stopped.. now I feel like the most insecure person in the world.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have to put this bluntly, otherwise i'm going to go off into loads of upset drabble and i don't want to bore you with that... I've always had trouble with my 'private' area, as a female i'm so worried all the time about what it looks like and s...

Is my vagina too large for my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am worried that my vagina is too large for my boyfriend. I am 30 yrs old and have not had any children, and he has a large penis (it must be 7 or 8 inches and is quite wide - certainly the largest I have encountered). Al...

Stomach cramps whilst on microgynon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Please help! Im on 3rd pack of microgynon pills and have recently started having sex without condoms, just the pill as protection. Might seem dumb as I don't want to get pregnant, but contraceptive nurse said its the pill that stops the pregnancy. ...

I am not emotionally attached to him but it bothers me that even though I am attractive, well mannered and professional he doesn’t care about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy in a club and he asked for my number which I gave it to him, that night he mentioned about his job and where he lived and then I said good bye to him. Seven weeks went by and then one night I received a text message from him I replied ...

His wife gave him permission from day one to have sex outside their relationship... and it's with me. He says he loves me and we're friends. What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - So I am in an interesting situation. For the last 4 years I have been romatically involved with a man. We have absolutely amazing sex and we click so perfectly that people constantly wonder if we are married. Ok so now the catch, He has been in ...

He wants to have a threesome with the other woman not touching him or be touched by him!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (28, I'm 24) of 6 months has been asking to have another woman join us in our 'bedroom time'. He says he will not touch and will not be touched by her, but that she will only touch me and I will be in control of the entire situation. ...

How do I get over her hairy minge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I love to give my gf oral sex because i know she likes it but it is hairy down there. How can i tell her that without offending her? Please dont be saying we are too young to be doing this because we are only doing oral and nothing else. We...

I'm worried I'm going to lose him over not letting him ejaculate in my mouth!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi I have this problem with my man, i am 52, he is 63 and he wants to cum in my mouth, up till now i have never wanted to do this ever in my life, but my man is diff and now i do, - to begin with, I didn't want to with him either, but now ...

What does it mean when a girl says "I like you a lot" during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hey could anyone tell me what does it mean when a girl says 'I like you a lot' in bed? I don't know how to take it, Is it just a heat of the moment thing to say or is it a time when all the truth slips out?...

Why is sex causing my boyfriend discomfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - When I have sex with my boyfriend I rub him raw... I know I'm small in that area and he's larger than I'm used to, is that the problem or is it because we are doing it too long and I'm not wet enough?...

Anyone with positive experiences of a threesome in a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Has anyone ever had any POSITIVE experiences of a threesome? Either MMF or FFM? I'm talking about within a long term relationship....

I get really insecure when we don't have sex for a couple of days!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 405 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - i've bin with my bf for almost 6years now. the problems started after giving birth to our baby girl(5mnths). i became so into sex, i would get turned on by just looking at him or feel him pass by, but 3mnths afta, things changed. i have to really ...

I'm still sleeping with my ex, even although he's had a girlfriend now for 11 months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Well last year I was with a lad for 8 months, he told me he was in love with me and we were so close, it was amazing. He was my boyfriend and my best friend and made me feel the happiest person in the world. We split up after a few arguments, then I ...

We are meant to be getting married but he keeps starting fights about how much sex we have. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Is there any advice for us???? I have gone from being so very very happy when my now fiance proposed to me 2 months ago to feeling like I just want to cry. Basically we had a huge argument last week which resulted in lots of screaming and shouting ...

I have tried to talk about sex but all he does is take is as a joke and go to sleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and have 2 kids. My husband and i have had sex 2 times this year and I am very scared of rejection so i guess it is sort of my fault but i have tried and all he does is take it as a joke and go to sleep. I am only ...

I had underage sex a year and a half ago. Could the guy still go to jail after all this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - okay I'm not sure of what the statutory rape laws are in texas, so whoever can give me an answer, I appreciate it. I was 15 and started having sex with my step-aunt's son, who was 25, I am 17 now and he is about to be 27, my mom found out a few ...

Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...

Did he really mean it? Or it was just said in the heat of the moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I was having sex with my 8 month's boyfriend yesterday, and I told him that I loved him while we were having sex. I do feel it, and I am very emotional, and we have shared that we have strong feelings for each other, so when I told him that...

How do I get my boyfriend's brother to stop, and understand that I'm not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - A few weeks ago i had sex with this guy for the first time. It turned out to be the best sex i've ever had. The first time we had the flat to ourselves for most of the night - he lives with his younger brother - a few hours later, while still in ...

He called me by MY FRIEND'S name when we were having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was drunk and called me my friends name during sex. They have only met twice, and I know they are not seeing each other. How should I take this?...

Why am I so dry down below when we make love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Why, when me and boyfriend have sex I'm horny but when it's time for him to penetrate me, my pussy is very dry, why is that???...

During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards. This has been happening for the last year or so and I can't avoid it. My question is does this ...

I need him to be more vocal during sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My partner is 6 years older than me (I'm 21 and he's 27) so naturally I have some 'issues' for lack of a better word, where experience is concerned. When we have sex it's brilliant, I always orgasm, fairly often I have multiples, and he always says ...

I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm very young and I'm worried about a lot of things. This is going to sound weird but I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it because I don't like my attraction to female feet. Secondly I am worried about future relatioships and sex ...