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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...

Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her ...

My boyfriend is only able to cum through oral sex and not intercourse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am 49 and my boyfriend of 7 years is 38. We have sex 4-5 times a week. Lately, he is only able to orgasm through oral sex. Although I don't mind pleasuring him that way, I wonder why he is having trouble having orgasms through "regular" sex ...

No symptoms but late period....could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Im 24. In the middle of august I had unprotected sex. I thought I could of been pregnant but I came on my period on 5 september. The period was a lot shorter and lighter than usual. I didnt think much of it. Now Im 4 days late for my next one. I ...

Are we just friends with benefits or are we more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Maybe someone can give me advise. I have a friend with benefits and I feel like I am in love with him. He has told me that he loves me too but that we are friends not bf/gf. Since the day we met we spend alsmost everyday together. He wants me to co...

Snickers is great but what is life like on Mars?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My fiance and I are in our mid-20's and have been dating since high school. We're deeply in love but our sex live is less than perfect. I want it more often than she does, and also desire more variety in the act. She likes meat and potatoes sex once...

I don't know how to give a blow job. And do you remove the tampon before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hiya. My boyfriend keeps dropping really obvious hints that he wants a blow job. It's not that i don't want to give him one because he have had sex, but i've never given one before and i dont want to seem stupid. So any tips? Also my friend has sex ...

I used to last for 45 minutes... now I'm down to 5 and embarrassed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - So, my fiance and I use to do it like rabbits.(we did it for 100 days straight almost!!) Its died down a bit which is normal. My problem is, I use to be able to have sex for a good 45 minutes or so, now I last no more than 5. She is getting very ...

Is he confused about this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said no more. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his gf but then he started to freak out about this ...

I cheated on my husband 6 years ago with his best friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I cheated on my husband 6 years ago with his best friend. I told him after the fact and we have been together ever since. We are still friends with his friend. We have 3 children together and I love him with all of my heart. He is my world. There ...

Does sex disappear in all relationships?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...

I need some guys opinions...would you guys care if a girl had scars on her breasts from reduction surgery?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - A few years back I had a breast reduction surgery...and while I am more comfortable in my clothes I must say that I'm not so comfortable outside my clothes...the surgery has left me with scars and one of my nipples is a different shape than the ...

Pregnant on the pill? First time user needs reassurance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hey Been on microgynon 30 for almost 3 months now, and have only just started having sex just with the pill (only done it once on sunday, we're all in the clear regarding STIs etc) with my bf, but lo and behold I'm still worried. I've been on tim...

How can I stretch my vagina in preparation for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyrfriend of a year and half are planning on having sex within the next two months. i was wondering how i can possibly stretch my vagina out as it is quite tight. yes, we will be using a condom....

Why does it hurt everytime I have sex as much as the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two weeks. We have done it about 8-9 times and every single time it hurts just as much as the first time. I don't understand why my body won't adjust and it seems that even if i take a little while ...

How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends? I know I never think about other guys when I'm having sex with my boyfriend, but I'm curious about how it is for guys. I once asked my boyfriend, but he ...