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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is it normal to not have a wet dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK....

How can I get her to move past the condom thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate w...

What condom size should I use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - hello, is there a way i can measure myself so i know what condom to use, and none of them , seem to have a size on them...

Condom or the pill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Soo... umm... I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and shes already discussed with me about having sex, but shes a virgin and soo am I, but I'm not quite sure whats the best thing to do, bucause she doesnt want me to use a condom, she ...

Do I need consent from my mum at age 16 to go on the pill? I don't want her to know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am with my bf for a year and a half and now we have decided that I will go on the Pill. Is there any way i can do this without my mum finding out? ...

My ex husband and I live together in my house...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My ex-husband and I live together in my house. We have been together for about 5 years he has a drinking problem and gets verbal abusive, he is in construction and hasn't had much work, I can't afford the house payment on my own so I am going to ...

Why can he never "finish" when we have sex? Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months, and have had sex 3 times. The first time was the day after he tried blow. The second time I asked him if there was anything I can do, if there was something wrong, etc. He said he didn't k...

My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence. I feel like neither of us are getting what we want out of our sex life. Is this something that will get better or is sexual incompatibility enough to end a ...

Why is my man being weird about getting physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with *Chris* for almost a year. We've been into each other since the first real conversation we had in January and never acknowledged it, thinking it couldn't work because of other forces complicating ...

I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex ...

Our sex life is going down the drain! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 399 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now, and our sex life is going down the drain! He masturbates everyday and anytime I try to resolve the issue he ignores me or comes up with an excuse on why we don't have sex very often. Is it normal ...

Obsessed with big boobs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - how do i stop my obsession with big boobs i have been married for 7 years now my wife has got really big boobs 38jj bot i still have a really bad obsession with big boobs i cant stop thinking about them. i love my wife loads and fearer that my o...

He says sex hurts him! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - my bf is 22 he was still a virgin we've only done it twice but he says it hurts him alot is it normal? ...

Why doesn't he want to make love to me? I don't understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - hey hmmm well ive got a bit of a situation.. here goes: well my boyfriend is 9 yrs older than me, Im 16 and hes 25... Initially, I was really unsure about him, becuase hes older, attractive, sucsessful and intelligent and a genuine caring guy, an...

How do I convince myself that he is not sleeping around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 398 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My guy and myself have not been having sex for the past 2 months. We did not even have time to meet for that same period of time. We met a few days back and I was puzzled when he lasted longer during sex which is not always the case. He always ...

I'm developing feelings for him, but don't know if he feels the same, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - i meet this guy about a month ago online but we only went out recently for a date. Date was ok ,wasnt fantastic, but we could carry convertsations well, which i found important, as chatting online with someone and in person is very different. Al...