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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want to be another notch in his bedpost!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - He wants to wait until I'm 16 which is fair enough, but I don't know if that's because he doesn't want to be teased or if he just wants sex to be legal. He's known as a bit of a player but we've known eachother for a long time, I liked him when I ...

My husband wants me to have sex with another man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - i need an opinion. i've been married to my husband for 13 years, my husband can't stop thinking about me having sex with another man. we agreed to try swinging a few times even though i was back and forth about it i tried it for him, after ...

Could I be prosecuted for this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...

Strange vagina!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

Why do I get pain when he thrusts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have had sex for about 7 months now. Recently, when he thrusts, it hurts my stomace so bad around my right hand side, and i mean really bad, but the pain does'nt last, it goes straight away but i get in so much pain. Any ideas wh...

Why does he deny that he masturbates at all hours of the day and night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi, im married to 48 year old man. we just got married just this summer. we have a very strong affection and love to each other as well as very active sex life. lately, i woke in the middle of the night that he is masterbating and he do it again in ...

How can I 'roughen up' our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, recently I found about my boyfriend had a few flings about a year ago, and was into really kinky painful sex. He would wake up covered in bruises and bite marks. My boyfriend and I don't have a realstionship like that, ours is passionate and ...

I'm a virgin and worried that I will bore my boyfriend in bed... how hard is it to make a guy climax?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i feel kinda wierd asking this, but my boyfriend and i are talking about sex, im a virgin, and he definately isnt. i want to be good for him, and not be known as the boring virgin who just lied there. i have no idea what to do. how hard...

He adores me but why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - a friend gave me good advice and made me see the truth in my relationship. how do i get enough courage to take her advice? i've been in my relationship and my boyfriend has nothing to complain about. i am extremely patient with him, i don't nag or a...

My wife doesn't want to have sex and dismisses all my suggestions!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My wife has never been greatly interested in sex. Now, after 13 years of marriage and her suffering a bout of depression and flirting with a work colleague, she tells me she is sexually frustrated - doesn't want to have sex with me - but wants to ...

Air trapped in the vagina during doggy style - any suggestions? Anyone else had this problem?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - When my husband and I have sex doggy style - sometimes he gets so much air in there it hurts for hours! I don't know what I can do about this. I haven't told him this before - I didn't want to make him feel bad cause I know hes not trying to hurt ...

Advice on giving head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on giving head! I gave my boyfriend head two times already but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. since I was shy to get it out of him. I lied and said I was never going to give him head but he said why not? I just want him to be sa...

What is this white,thick discharge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - i am a 19 year old girl and i have been with the same boy for about three years. i was his first and he was my first! i have alot of discharge but i dont itch down there sometimes it smells and somethimes it does not but it is always in my underwear ...

Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?...

I'm afraid of giving a hand job...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not very experienced and I'm hopefully entering my first real kind of permanent relationship with this really nice lad. For some reason I am actually really afraid of giving a handjob! Not so much a blowjob because I've done tha...

We're meeting in 2 months time but I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn. Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good ...

Do any women feel it uncomfortable or painful when their clitorus is licked?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I was just wondering if there are any women out there that get uncomfortable or even feel pain when there clitoris is touched or licked etc. I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and I really want to know what to do if anything to make ...