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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. If a man gets an erection and it is not realieved by ejaculation. Does it hurt?
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reader, Jblodgood  +, writes (7 October 2011):
I guess guys can vary? Who knows. Ive had a few episodes of prolonged and intense arousal that didn't result in ejaculation and I had trouble sitting down again i was so sore. Granted, they were very few but definately intense.
Of course it doesn't happen everytime you get aroused (not even close) and sometimes it's just a little uncomfortable and no big deal whatsoever.
Ladies, I think it's worth noticing that almost every comment clarifies (perhaps obviously, but correctly) that it's not the girls fault or duty to rectify (ha) the problem. That's alright in my book and you can't blame us for trying to convince you to help if the moment is right :)
Its only cuz your all so darn SEXY!!! :)
...I'm just sayin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Well, as a man, I can honestly say that we get erections about 20 times a day, and no it doesn't hurt if you don't ejaculate every time you get one. However, if you are in a heavy makeout session and have an erection for a while, then 'blue balls' is a real thing. It is like a painfull urge to 'finish up' (cum). I do believe (being older now I can confess), that teenaged boys will propagate this tale beyond what is really true. My wife believed this to the point that even though she was determined to stay a virgin until marriage (and she did wait until we were engaged), that if she dated a guy and they had a long makeout session, she would give him a handjob to 'relieve' him. I don't know the exact count, but it's almost 20 guys that she gave handjobs because of this 'exaggeration', so I guess it worked for those 20 guys or so.
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reader, pree  +, writes (7 October 2008):
no it wont
when v get errect , not came out till it come v ill feel so good n v ill b in good mood to .
so am much time v can hold tat much time v can have good feel.
any more doubt let me no
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): It sure is, Fade, and isn't it a wonderful coincidence that the two fit together quite nicely? Also I like the fact that women have breasts. During the act of creation, God made many toys for boys. He seems to have put most of them on a woman's body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): "lovers balls" a very well known and common term for what men endure when they are all worked up and cannot release there sexual tension.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): ... and I often wonder how you girls manage to run around with yours!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 October 2008):
 For the life of I don't know HOW you guys walk around with those things!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Looks like the girls don't believe us boys! They probably think it's a 'cock and balls' theory, but I'm sure if THEY had a meat and two veg they'd know different!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 October 2008):
If it were true you'd see guys curled up in the fetal position littering every street corner. It's one of the oldest ploys guys use on soft-hearted and abeit soft-headed young girls. Never fall for it.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 October 2008):
 If aroused sufficiently, indeed it can be quite painful!
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Yes it does depending on how long they've had the erection. If you're being intimate with someone, whether it's talking or being physical, they will more than likely have an erection. After a while it will start hurting and ejaculating is the only way to get rid of it. But, like Annalisa said, don't let anyone use it as an excuse to get their leg over. Tell them to sort themselves out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Ooohh, Annalisa - you've given the game away now! (:o)Not 'hurt' as such, but it ranges from slightly uncomfortable to a feeling similar to being kicked in the balls an hour ago - commonly known as 'blue balls'. The intensity of the discomfort is relative to the strength of the erection and the time elapsed between achieving the erection and being relieved of it.
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