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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What can couples do under 16 without going on the wrong side of the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I r both 14 and we both love eachothers company. But once we we were both at a sleep over at a friends house and we ended up sleeping in each others arms, with me wearing nothing but boxers. Neither of us minded excpt that one of ...

What can I do to stop ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - I am 17 and recently lost my virginity whilst drunk. I was nervous a lot before having sex but I finally got over it and did it with a random girl where I lasted about 45 mins. Since then I have recently got a girlfriend. The first two times I had ...

Is this the build up to an orgasm that I'm preventing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - When me and my partner have sex, it's amazing. Only, I haven't yet reached an orgasm. When we're mid-action, I sometimes have to tell him to stop, just because it's TOO intense, and feels TOO good - it's weird. Is this the build up to an orgasm that ...

We had great sex - but am I in love with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - This is really difficult to write about because I'm hurting so much but I need advice. About 2 months ago I became romantically involved with my best friend. We basically grew closer and closer and then he moved in to a flat literally 5 mins wal...

I get orgasms from porn but not from my boyfriend. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I don't get turned on at all nor do I climax during sex. I usually get wet at the beginning but after a short while I dry up and I lose interest and things start to get mechanical. I just can't seem to be in the mood for sex. I'm not sure if it has ...

Is it wrong for me to continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I am about to turn 40 and have been in a non-committed relationship with a man, who's about to turn 50, for the past 3 months. We've been on a few 'dates' but most of our meetings have been at his house for tv or coffee,talking, and then we'd end ...

I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my h...

Why do I go soft at the critical moment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years (on and off). Im 16 and she's 15. its a little concern of mine which could turn into a majour concern. We've done stuff other than sex and its all gone fine but when it comes to interco...

Why can he not cum all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, we have a 3 year old son together and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our second child. Just recently I've noticed he doesn't always cum during sex, we usually have sex about three times a week. A couple of ...

I get too turned on about sex!! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - i am female 18, and i have had sex multiple times before, but it seems more and more that whenever i get horny or turned on just a bit (either by thoughts or whatever) that i start to excrete some cum, which i can not control, and sometimes its a ...

I found pictures of him wearing my satin panties!

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I am in so much shock!! I've been with my loving boyfriend for almost two years. I just found pictures of him in several of my satin panties. He's positioned in different ways to show off the panties he's wearing. Some pictures actually have hi...

Any helpful sites on giving blow jobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Okay, so I have a pretty awkward question here. I gave my first blowjob ever a few days ago. TBH, I had previously read up on them online and such, and though I'd be pretty good. The problem was, my mouth was a lot smaller than I expected, or his ...

Is it normal to have a swollen vagina after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - is it normal to have a swollen vigina after sex? what does it mean?...

Am I going into this FWB thing with the right mindset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - So I met this guy and I just want to know if I am going into this FWB thing with the right mindset...really, all I want is someone to mess around with and stuff, maybe occassionally cuddle afterwards. I mean, a boyfriend would be nice but at this ...

How can I make him cum quicker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Hi, when I give my boyfriend a hand job I usually swap hands because my arm gets sore after a while... but recently I broke my arm, so I can't do this. Is there a way I can get my boyfriend to cum before my arm gets sore when I give him a ...

If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?...

Rape victims afraid - I am one but I am not frightened.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - At 14 years old I was a rebel a girl who thought she could handle herself, go out drinking, sleep with men and do as she wished. I learnt the hard way, as I journied home I was pulled into an alley and brutally beaten and raped by 2 grown men. They ...