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female
age
41-50,
*loni
writes:I recently overheard my partner and her ex discussing intimate details of our relationship and poking fun at me. This was after I had told my partner that I did not feel comfortable having her ex in our home for "coffee" whilst no one was here. I confronted my partner with the fact that she was disclosing and discussing our relationship on a level that shouldn't be discussed with her ex especially behind my back. I am devastated and I am feeling hurt and betrayed. I don't feel I can trust her anymore even after I have explained how I feel she continues to defend her ex and continues to feed her information about our relationship. My partner is trying to tell me that I am in the wrong for eavesdropping on the conversation. I don't trust her ex and now I don't trust my partner. I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): I think you should start really calling the shots here. She has completely disregarded your feelings and it sounds pretty immature to me she is obviously not 'watertight' on matters of a personal and private nature whether or not she discusses them with her ex or someone else. The fact its her ex just rubs it in. She obviously has a bond with him so keep your dignity and divulge no more. I would get some distance from this situation physically or mentally and see what happens. She does not sound trustworthy in any way.
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reader, MarieM32  +, writes (16 October 2008):
move on!!
omg you deserve much better you dont need that you cant trust someone like that.
it not like he/she is talking to her bestfriend and even then there are some fings you shouldnt tell.
it seems like he/she is comparing you and haveing a laugh with he/her ex over this
GET OUT QUICK!!
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