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What are little things to turn him on in and outside the bedroom? I am to show I want him too!

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Question - (16 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please could you help me turn my boyfriend on, in and out of the bedroom. The other day, he said he thinks i dont enjoy having sex with him and that if it wasn't for him, we would never have sex as he is always the one who makes the first move. I told him that it was because i was nervouse. He soon understud.

What are little things to turn him on in and out the room? I'm shy, so he does'nt expect slutty language, and he doesnt liek it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

for me, weird things turn me on. i dont really like the "leather and lace" stuff. for me, its simple things. like a bra strap falling off your shoulder and sticking out your sleeve a little, strapless bras that are just a bit too loose that fall a lot. panties that ride up your bum. these are things my girl can.. and does... for me when we are out. it gets me all set for when we get home. and these are things that dont really draw attention in public.... but your man will see and like. obviously, you will have to find out the stuff he likes.... but honeslty, i dont know any guy who doesnt like a falling strapless bra...lol good luck. and yes, we dont always like to be the ones asking for sex, or suggesting it. and we do not think its slutty if you ask/suggest it.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (16 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntI think that waiting to have sex will make you feel sexier in the bedroom. Give yourself time to get intimate with your boyfriend in different ways, emotional ways. When you are completely at ease, you will turn into a crazed sex kitten in the bedroom and out. For now, enjoy kissing, enjoy touching, talking, laughing, exploring.

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