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What does it feel like when you're about to orgasm?

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Question - (16 October 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi so yeah embarrassing in a way but i was wondering like i know some girls can cum, and my boyfriend recently starting eating me out i guess you can say and he said he wants me to finish[cum] but he said i end up not doing it. but i mean i dont know if it was me about to cum but it felt like i had to pee when he was doing all the stuff down there. is that the what your suppose to feel when your about to cum or no?

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A female reader, XoSarahoX Canada +, writes (17 April 2009):

Sorry, I don't have an answer I would just like to say that i had the same question and the answers have been GREAT! I always had to stop my boyfriend cause i didn't want to like pee on his face or something. Now i'm okasy with it and I know it's not going to happen! I feel better knowing i'm not the only one with questions about this kind of thing.

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A female reader, foonlius Australia +, writes (29 January 2009):

if you push through the feeling of needing to pee(which is your g-spot being stimulated), physically push out or just dont hold back, you will be very surprised to find it isn't pee at all, it is female ejaculate! the liquid is silky and sometimes sweet to the taste, if you can get through the inital holding it all back.. you will have the most intense, wonderful and WET orgasm you can have. if you experience this with your partner, its pretty much guaranteed to be one of the most amazing experiences of his sex life! female ejaculation is perfectly natural and wonderful and i wish all women knew about this.

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (22 October 2008):

oldfool agony auntMy first girlfriend, who I was with for eight years, could only orgasm through masturbation, to my great frustration.

One time during sex she said she needed to pee badly. I tried to convince her not to worry, just do it in the bed. To no avail; she insisted on going to the toilet -- and found there was hardly anything there. I felt really frustrated. That may have been the last chance we ever had. We broke up several years later without the same thing happening again. Since that experience, I've always been extremely gratified when a woman has an orgasm. After so many years of disappointment, it is just so wonderful when a woman can come.

Anyway, just let go. It doesn't matter if you pee. A few dirty sheets is a small price to pay for the chance to experience orgasm.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):

This is probably going to sound strange, but a female friend of mine never had an orgasm until she was in her mid 20's.

That's not the strange part, as I know this is (sadly) quite common. The strange part is how it happened.

She was with a guy who was the 'experimental' type, and one day he asked her to pee in his mouth when he was going down on her.

She told me that when she was doing what she normally does when she starts to pee, at the moment when she thought the peeing would start, she had her first orgasm.

So wile you may think that you're holding back a stream of pee, you may well be stopping yourself from cumming. Just relax and let go.

I know this because she was so excited at having her first orgasm, she told the story to everyone (much to her boyfriend's embarrassment)

On the flip side, I have had a good few girls accidentally pee when I've been going down on them. An interesting difference is that they didn't realise at all that they were peeing themselves, ie they didn't feel the need to pee.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

g1606 basically feels how I feel when I get an orgasm too.

My boyfriend notices that when i get one, he knows when I do, because I tremble a lot, and I can' control it. But it is a release of a good sensation. After the trembling goes away, I laugh, and pleased laugh. And he likes it.

But I don't have the feeling that I need to pee, unless I do.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (16 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYes, and that feeling occurs for many men as well as women during early sexual experiences. It does not, however, mean that urination is needed. This signals a pre-orgasmic state for both genders. It is simply one of the feelings we all experience, but eventually learn to distinguish for its difference.

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