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She wants me to pee on her...

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Question - (16 October 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've got a weird problem and that is why I wanna remain anonymous, my gf has a weird mind as the other day we were having sex and after sex I was going to go to the toilet and pee and she told me not to go to the toilet as she wanted me to pee on her.

I was shocked but intrigued so I asked her why and she said it would be sexy. I did it and it felt weird, I didn't get any sexual pleasure from it but then yesterday she said she wanted to pee on me after sex and I was like no thanks.

What I am wondering is does/has anyone ever done this? Do you think I should allow her to pee on me? I probably will but will make sure I have a shower straight afterwards.

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A male reader, slurpee Canada +, writes (8 November 2008):

I loved to have my wife pee on me, but she often did not like to do so. so, you see, there are people wanting this from both ends.

pee is sterile when coming "out of the tap", and not harmful in the amounts you'd be exposed to, unless she doesn't drink much all day and gives a super concentrated burst after 12 hours (a bit salty).

I agree with others, be pragmatic and trade desires with her. as long as nobody gets hurt and it is consenting between you, why not do it?

she could always practice on me (the pee thing), but (seriously) be happy she is communicating these things to you and not just hiding them away.

slurpee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

lol.. Thank you very much sir for your updated post. We are very glad all went well with you and your girlfriend.. Many men and women have secret desires that they have been told are wrong. But nothing between a loving couple is dirty or wrong, unless it hurts, humiliates and disgusts. Open your mind, and explore your fantasies together safely, and it will bring you closer as you have just found out. We are so glad you was open enough to join her in this. Remember negotiation, communication and compromise will make your loving relationship strong and special to you both. Congratulations, this lady is very lucky that she found such a considerate man as you... Blessings..

PS: Urine Therapy is a real thing, and is used by people all over the world.. Sperm also has special cosmetic and nutritious benefits, I'm not trying to put ideas in your head, but just informing you that a lot of what people call "dirty" is actually very beneficial, and lots of lies have been spread about sex...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

I think that's great that you were willing to try with her and turned out you both enjoyed it! Bravo! And to have her so grateful to you... (wink wink)..aren't you the lucky fellow!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

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I decided to do it to please her and we did it in the shower, she pee'd on my leg first and then after getting into it she pee'd all over me and i could see it in her eyes she was loving it whuch was brilliant for me, i also pee'd on her but as we had the shower running all throughout it didnt feel as dirty as i thought it would...

after we talked and she has told me that she will do anything that i want her to as a thankyou for living her fantasy and I told her enjoyed it that I would consider doing it again....

thankyou everyone for making me feel like it isnt wrong as i thought it was....i have never heard of urine therapy but it was fun and adds another dimension to our relationship which is great

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

Its called a "golden shower" and believe it or not, alot of men will pay money to have it done to them, or have someone do it to them. Everyone is different, so what one finds erotic, another of us find strange. Its all about what you like, what you can handle. If it truly is uncomfortable to you, gently tell your girl that you'd like to make her happy, but perhaps you could try other things? Love & sex should be about compromise, so I hope you can reach one!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

Have you heard of urine therapy? at least you will get a great skin glow, look it up on the net, may be a bonus! ancient medicine,spiced up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

You have been given great answers and you should take them on board. Peeing on your partner is what I call an extreme sexual practice, and it's not for everyone but it can be erotic and fun, and it's perfectly safe. I suggest that you follow Fade's suggestion and play these games in the bathroom, so you can both have a shower straight after. For the partner that likes this type of thing, it really is just a more intimate version of the pleasure you can get from a normal shower, paddling pool or jacuzzi. If you don't like it, then don't do it. If it turns her on and you don't really mind, then there is no problems. Sex is a thing between you and her, negotiation, compromise and communication always works best. There is nothing wrong with her, and many people enjoy such things. But if you don't like it then tell her, and try something different instead.

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A male reader, benefattore United States +, writes (16 October 2008):

benefattore agony auntWell as her lover it's kind of "up to you" to please her. Sacrifices must be made, and I'm sure she makes them to please you. For example, not very many women even enjoy giving oral sex.

Perhaps you can let her know that it's not your favorite thing in the world, but if it pleases her that much you'll do it (provided you even like doing it). If it bothers you THAT much then don't do it.

Relationships are all about giving and recieving. Perhaps you could have a "trade off" where she does something extremely sexy for you and you return the favor by peeing on her. Perhaps you've always wanted to cum on her? Or cum in her mouth, maybe even swallow? Maybe even a position or some other sexual favor you've been meaning to ask.

Just be warned, that if she isn't getting what she wants from you, she's bound to go else where for her pleasure.

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