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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Newlywed virgin not had sex yet. Shall I just 'get it over with' even though it hurts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - So, my husband and I are recently married (only married about a month and a half, so far) but we're still dealing with the issue of my...ahem...virginity...I've never engaged in full intercourse/penetration and we have tried numerous times already, ...

How do I get back the girl I fell for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - hi everyone. I need some help as i am at aloss as to what to do. My wife to be has massive self image problems and no confidence. She has gained 6 stone since we have been together. This doesnt bother me as she is the girl i have fallen for. But all ...

My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...

Any advice for someone feeling stuck in a marriage without a sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Have been reading a lot of articles on great sex, oral sex etc that all adds up to that happy life. What's to be said about couples who's sex life isn't so great but are together because of the vows they made. Some people have the zeal to stay no ...

How do men really feel about wives and girlfriends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

30 August 2011 (?) - I would like advice from the guys out there please. I see a lot on the internet and t.v. and so forth about when guys all hang out together, such as the ball game or the bar, guys night out. They all bash their wives or gf. They say "being with ...

Is this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I was talking online with a man and we were talking about sex. He described something that reminded me how my husband does things. My husband and I were fighting at the time and I hadn't got off for over a month. Is it cheating that I masterbated ...

I don't want to end my 11 year marriage but my wife is not sure. She cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - i have been married for 11 years to the same women, i have never cheated on her. two months ago our fighting got really bad and i was ask to move out the house. then one night she ask to talk to me, i went over to the house where she told me she ...

My wife fell pregnant by another man, should I forgive her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hai people, my wife had a child by another man, i kicked her out but she returned begging to be forgiven she was always sad so i feared she would have a miscarriage so i took her back in despite the pain i was going through. The father of the child ...

My step son leaves everything to the last minute and leaves me to pick up the pieces, and my husband expects this of me too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I am extremely frusterated about something that keeps happening and I don't know what to do.. My step son always waits for the last minute to do everything then it is just expected that I will jump through hoops to take care of it. My husba...

He wants me to have sex with someone else because he has no sex drive, and he wants to fool around with a man again as he is bisexual! How do I cope with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I'm in need of some serious advice. So lately my husband's sex drive has plummeted and our sex life hasn't been that great because along with his sex drive his stamina has plummeted as well. Well he sat me down two days ago and said that he knows he ...

Am I over-reacting to his anger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I am 26 and my husband is 31 and we have four children aged 5 years and under. My husband is a very good provider and tells me he loves me all the time. He is considerate and does things like buying me my favorite ice-cream or chocolate for no ...

Will a man cheat because his "man crush" thinks it's okay to cheat on your wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

29 August 2011 (?) - I am concerned about my husband. He has an at home business but recently he met a new friend on xbox life. This is a male friend. I have no issues with him having friends, that's not the issue. The issue is that for the past three weeks he has sta...

Is the MIL trying to "stir the pot" or am I just paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid friends, I have been married 3 years but with my hubby for 7years. Here is my issue: I think my MIL talks crap behind my back maybe even bringing ex GF's names up? to break us up so he will move back home across the country to mother b...

His parents made my life hell, and now that we've moved away he's withdrawn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - My husband is driving me crazy. We have been married for almost 20 years - when we first married he insisted that we live close to his parents who constantly meddled and controlled him making my life miserable. They had 24 hour access to our house ...

He says I'm taking him for granted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 4 years; we dated for 4 years before he asked me to marry him ... and that was mainly because I'd told him that I wanted a husband and had no intentions of staying in the relationship any longer. Anyway, he's ...

I am miserable being married to my husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I have been married for 29 years.All these years were very tough I feel like I am in prison.We are like day and night. I got depressed. I had a break down before and i Can feel one coming soon. Ijust want to dissapear and never come back.I hate him ...

How do I talk to my wife about her hygiene without offending her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Hi, My wife's let herself go of late. By this I mean she could shower more and cuold shave more often. How do I bring this up? There have been times when getting intimate has been tough due to smell. I always ensure she orgasms and really en...

My husband said he shouldn't have married me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - while we were arguing, my husband told me this "I should've not married you". Did you think he meant that? He said he just said it coz he was mad at me but I kinda felt like we are about to get divorce. Idk what to do. if I will save this marriage I ...

Can you please help give me some clarity? Because I am drowning in all these relationship troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay I have many issues with my relationship but I will bring up one at a time and see what we can figure out solutions. First off I am a 30 year old female in a 8 year relationship with someone who is 1 year older than me. He has 3 kids and I ha...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

My husband still works with his ex mistress

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I caught my husband of 16 years cheating on me last september with a woman who works in his office. He broke it off when I found out but he still works with her. I think about it everyday while he's at work. It torments me and I've told him that. ...

My husband says he loves me but he is verbally abusive, sees me just once a month and cares more about my family than he does about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Alright, something has been bothering me lately it's about my marriage. I don't know if my husband really loves me or he is just faking it. he tells me he loves me but there are things he does that makes me wonder if he really does. He always find ...

The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...

My wife's behaviour is making me lose respect for her

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - Ever since I have married I have become miserable, as I feel like I got a bad deal, as I don't feel like my wife brings a lot into this marriage. She comes with a past which has made me a bit of an emotional wreck. Add to that she has messed up her ...

My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real a...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Is it possible to have a lasting marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - I read so many questions here about married people who have fallen out of love, married people who cheat, married people who are tempted to cheat, etc. etc. Does marriage even mean anything these days, other than being tied together by law?...

Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here...

How do you know if you will want to have children or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Question for you since no one has a real good answer for me. My fiancee and I had a discussion the other day about having children. Up to this point in my life I have gone back and forth a lot. Sometimes I want a child, sometimes I absolutely do ...

This woman seems interested in my husband, but I'm not sure if anything is really going on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband got attracted to his brothers wife...she is tryin to trap him she fell for her..till now they dont have any sexual contact... but he is trying to shift his job 7 hrs near to their city...still nearer is not possible for his job..so ...

Wife doesn't want to leave me, but isn't 'in love' anymore. She's happier with her FWB.

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - I'm a married man, and my wife has just said that she still loves me but is not in love with me. She says I'm a great father and husband and she doesn't want to hurt me. Then, she explained, she has a friend which has gotten into the "with benefi...

His best friend came onto me and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Ive been with my husband, Ben, for 5 years (married for 1) and i do love him. Hes been havin a tough time lately and is suffering with depression and i seem to spend every minute i have picking him up and looking after him, which i have been happy ...

Our marriage is dying.. but my husband doesn't realise it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I have been married to my highschool sweatheart for 8 years now, but we have been together since we were both 15. He's now 30 and I'm 29. We just had a daughter last year. My husband is a wonderful guy, he's courteous, sweet, do it yourself'er will ...

My husband is attracted to his brother's wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - my husband is attracted to his brothers wife.he stayed 1 year in their house before our marriage.she is trying to trap him since she has some crush over him.but for sure till now they dont have any sex.but he is making calls to her and she too.when ...

Why did my wife wait until after we were married to tell me she's got a low sex drive? And how can I get her to think about me and my needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - Okay i guess to start....my wife and i got married about 6 months ago now. everything was great...but about after 3 months of having amazing sex...it seemed to just stop. when i asked about it...she said she has low sex drive....now why didnt she ...

I want my wife to be more adventurous in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - So how do I get my wife of 36 years to lighten up and try some different positions. She just likes lying on her back and doing our thing. Get it over with and go to sleep. She does not like sucking, nor letting me enjoy her other than sticking it ...

Is my husband obsessed with his colleague? are they more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4634 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - my husband is 31 and his female colleague is 24 and they work in the same business-theater. they were good friends before and when they had any interactive sessions they would always sit beside each other. i have seen their pictures, some taken 2-...

Should I go to the in-laws anniversary lunch just to keep the peace? Or should I not go because of the way they treated me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - My husband has cheated on me with at least 2 other women during a 5 year period. I found out about his secret double life about 2 years ago. I recently told his parents the details of what he had been doing one day when I got extremely upset and ...

How do I get my abusive, threatening husband out of my house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - after being widowed for 7 years i met a dynamic character who wooed and wowed me i loved the attention and enjoyed the high life and said yes when he proposed agreeing that he came to live in my house bought by me and my late husband as his house ...

Lonely, confused, and lost: should I stay with him or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - Hi I feel lost in life and need help. I broke up with my husband of 14 years nearly four years ago. We had had a good relationship and two amazing children but he cheated and I could not forgive him. I desperately regret this. I was intent I cou...

Married for 8 years, he is no longer interested in anything but work and money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years. When we first got together, we had sex all the time. After about a year it started dwindling away slowly and now we might have sex 2 times a year. When I ask him what is wrong, he says he has no ...

We didn't live together before marriage so I never knew the extent of his drinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - Dear all, im married 6 months but hadnt lived together beforehand. My main problem is my husband drinks a lot whilst i really dont like drink but would take a glass of wine the odd time. I knew he liked a beer. Now that i live with him i find ...

What can I do - his behaviour towards me is a turn-off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - What am I to do, when the love is not all there? I do love my husband, but he has done some things that I totaly dissagree with, like hanging out until the next morning with the guys, not answering my calls, not coming home, lieing etc, the list ...

I left my lover to return to my wife. my lover just wants to be friends now. nothing more

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I am a married man with 2 wonderfull children but I just don't love my wife anymore. For this reason I have has a lover for the past year. That is until recently... I left my wife for my lover briefly, but I missed my kids and couldn't handle b...

I feel excluded from things. Is there any way I can change to encourage others to include me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

20 August 2011 (M) - I know that I am a friendly, caring, conifedent person. That's something that I've started to see for myself recently and a lot of other people have told me that, it's been a continuing trend. But what I don't understand is that people always seem ...

Should I be concerned that my 26 year old BF now says he is "too young" for marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - What can a man do when he is in a committed relationship that he cannot do once he gets engaged? I ask because my boyfriend of several years (who I live with) told me last week that he was too young for a marriage committment at 26 when we were tal...

I wish my husband would wake up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

20 August 2011 (F) - my husband and are separted he lives in another town about 15 mins from me . he loves music and so do i .all of this was going good until the singer drinks lot and doesnt help out on moving band stuff .any way my husband and i lived with this man ...

I want my wife to have sex with other men

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

19 August 2011 (M) - I want my wife to have sex with other men.This wife is #2, we have been married for 14 years, and in year 2 or 3 she said she has never had a orgasm in her life.She was in her late 30's when we got married, she has been with i guess 15 or so men ...

I caught my husband in bed with another woman.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

19 August 2011 (F) - i saw my husband on bed with another woman may 13 2011 his friends gve me the hint and help me open to reality, the worst day of my life. i hate him now and we have a child. a very beautiful child. i want to teach him a hard lesson??? tell me how?...

My wife won't have sex with me because of past sexual abuse. How can we heal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

19 August 2011 (M) - My wife of 20 years and I have always had a poor sex life except for probably the first sex months that we dated, but she abruptly stopped having sex with me a decade ago. She says it creeps her out and she feels like she's being raped. She has ...