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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Sister in law wants sex and my wife wants me to give it to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - I'm not a young man anymore. I've had a good marriage so far, at least I though we did. First, my wife and my sister in law were both victims of being raped by their father as teens, it was kept a deep family secret. I'm not sure about this ...

After 10 years of marriage my husband has no interest in sex. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Just asking. Is it really happening,when the husband and wife is living together for nearly 10 years the sex life is gone? i mean, my husband and me are nearly 10 years now. i dont know but its already 8 months now that he dont even think about ...

My husband is choosing a caregiver over me?? I think he's lost his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - I don't know what to make of my life sometime. My husband's mom is in an assisted living facility. She had a particular care giver who tried to get my husband to hire her under the table. So I go to visit his mom because he asked me to check this ...

Husband works from home and I hate it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - Hi, Does anyone have a husband that works from home? Mine started recently and I hate it. He makes me feel like the villain but I adore him. I just don't want to spend every second together. He goes to a room as his office but there is still a ...

Can working too much cause impotence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I was wondering, if it is possible that my husband 'simpotence,caused by his workaholism? He is totally off sex, never wants any sex, at all, he is unable to get hard, when once every few month i initiate sex. I found very confusing articles...

I need both my husband and my lover

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - So ive been married for 18 years, we have 4 children all teens. Extremely unhappy since 2007. We always had a sort of toxic relationship. Fighting (just words) , making up, great sex..etc. In 2005 he was involved in a business that required alot of ...

My husband blames me for all the damage caused to our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - Hello this is going to be a long question but I need advice. Me and my husband have been together for 5 years now. Married for 6 months. We have a three year old son together. He is my first everything and we've had a lot of ups and downs througho...

My wife came back to me after an affair but she's pregnant and I don't know if it's mine

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

26 August 2013 (M) - My wife left me for another man last year, she was carrying this hidden affair for a while. I was clueless or chose to be blind about it. She broke my heart because I really do love her, I tried really hard to get her to come back and she did. She ...

Nothing has been said since I reminded her of her sexual past, should I bring it back up?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

25 August 2013 (M) - I am upset over something but don’t have the right to be. I posted last hear on Dear cupid and got some good feed back. Let me explain and get your reaction. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy for a number of years. I realize the p...

Her parents don't know we are married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really don’t know where to start.. I met a beautiful lady (24) that is now my wife accidentally through social media whilst I was part of a high profile event which we both were using such public platform to talk about. Cut a lo...

My wife doesn't do any work at home and then complains that I should help her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - My wife is a stay at home mom, while I work 10-12 hours a day. My wife doesn't do anything at home, I always come home to a mess. She always complains that I should help with the house work. She doesn't do laundry until it absolutely needs to be ...

I don't want to get married even though I am engaged!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I really dont know how to word this, so bare with me. Im 24, my fiance is 26. Weve been together 5 years and have two children ages 2 and 3. We are engaged to be married in april, 2015. We are paying for the wedding ourselves, ...

Wife had bad day at work, crying but won't tell me what happened!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

23 August 2013 (M) - I need some insight into the female mind...no easy task I know. My wife comes home crying. She started a new job about 2 weeks ago. She said she had a horrible day. So I hug her and she cries. I ask whats wrong but she said she didnt want to ta...

What does it mean when your husband doesn't get hard anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - Hi I'm a married woman, mother of 2 and 1 on the way. My husband and I just recently relocated for a better life for the family. We don't know anyone here so we just rely on each other to get to know the area more. So as most parents know, its ...

Why is my wife suddenly so happy to have anal sex? I can't ask her about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - Anal sex with wife. Hi. Been married for 10 years and wife said was virgin. Regular sex was painful with her to start with and she seemed really not to know hot to handle it. However, very recently she started initiating anal...

Does my wife's behavior mean she is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - In the last year,my wife has talked sexier and much more than in the pastwhile having sex,started to exercise,swallowed several times giving me oral sex a couple times in one week when she. Has only did that twice before in 20yrs and became ...

My husband has many close female friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - I'am not the jealous type I'm very laid back and always tried to avoid drama by not hanging out with certain ppl. My husband got a lot of female friends he talked to form day to day I have not met them yet and they called him for advice all the ...

My husband wants a sex change and I am feeling like it is the death of our marriage. How can I cope and help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - I'm at a loss and in desperate need of advice. So bare with me for a minute because this is gonna be a bit long... I am married to my husband of almost 3 years. Well the other day he came out to his family and friends about him being bisexual...

My husband has roving eyes and has become quite "touchy-feely" with younger attractive women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

18 August 2013 (F) - What to do to a husband that has a roving eyes, sometimes likes to ogles and lately his new thing is the European style of kissing and hugging when being introduce. At first I have no problem with it but then it's becoming a hobby but the problem ...

In an LDR for one year, husband has just come back and now his job requires him to travel again - I'm freaking out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 August 2013 (F) - Hello! My husband and I have been in an LDR for one year: it was hard, but we are finally back together! He's found this great new job and we're finally back together. This job will require him to travel for work. His first trip will be in a couple ...

His divorce is going to come through soon and he is talking about us taking a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3903 days ago

16 August 2013 (F) - Weve been together for 8mo and his divorce should be done in Nov. Its been an emotional roller coaster in our relationship since he's getting a divorce because his wife cheated, im not sure what he really means and wants but he's been saying we need ...

Can a man who is willing to cheat on his wife ever be faithful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - Please help me. I have been married for 12 years. I love my husband like a dear friend, but I have never been in love with him. We have been to counseling and I have even told him that when we married I was in a bad place and I am not sure I ...

Have the courage to go from doormat to dream girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

15 August 2013 (?) - O.k, lets define what a doormat means. A 'Doormat' is where people wipe their feet before entering a house, so someone who is called a 'doormat' is someone who gets 'stepped on' or abused by other people. or A weak individual who is regularl...

My husband is suddenly sending me hardcore text messages. I'd like just regular texts sometimes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - I am 30 years old and have been with my husband for ten years. Last month I hit a crazy horny raunchy craze in my sex life, so my husband was happy to oblige and excited to satisfy me : ) Well now, all he text me about is sex. Dirty raunchy ...

He's cheated in the past and I don't trust my husband fully now. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - Married for 12 yrs. im a SAHM( Stay at home mom) with two kids 6 and 2 yr olds. Husband seeked escorts while 2nd pregnancy. Found out 2 yrs late. He says he is clean now no more a cheater but no matter how hard I try I find myself spying on him ...

How do I get my children to talk to me again after I left their mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

14 August 2013 (M) - I left my wife just over six months ago. Not for another woman, I still live alone, but we had been arguing for years and years about everything under the sun, and in the end I just got tired of it. I deliberately chose a flat not far from our ...

I feel I'm addicted to having this married man with me, even though he proved to be a liar and a cheater. How can I snap myself out of this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - 2 years ago I met a man whom I fell in love with. We started seeing each other until I found out he was actually married with children (his wife read his messages and contacted me). I was devastated and things ended right there. Since we live ...

I'm struggling to leave my husband that I don't love anymore. Is it possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - I'm sorry, I'm back again...I just can't seem to get anywhere so have returned with still hope in my heart . I am still struggling to leave my husband who I don't love anymore. He is a recovering alcoholic with depression. I suffer from phobic a...

Does my husband really love me when he still wants to go to his ex's house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Hey everyone im new to this site. Im not sure where to start. But i am very heartbroken my husband and i have been married for over a year we had only been dating for a month then we got married. My husband has a daughter from a previous ...

Should I fight with ex over settlement? Or just sign it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Should I just sign our settlement, or fight him? Ex and I are finalizing our divorce settlement. I was mostly ok with everything, but did think I was getting shaft a little bit. Anyway, the other day I had to go the ER because I was covered in ...

What did my husband mean about proposing a new arrangement in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

10 August 2013 (F) - We had a conversation with my husband yesterday. things are not going well with us for quite a long time now. And I am a bit puzzled with what he means. Please don't advice me to ask him directly. I know how he is, he ll never tell me anything to ...

I can't imagine the feeling of walking down the aisle and listen to him promise things to me that he already promised to someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

10 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months now, I met him while he was still living and in a marriage with another woman. He states that they were separated though they still lived together, said I love you, and hasn't filed for a ...

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

10 August 2013 (M) - I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

I don't know if I should fight for this, or just drop it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - Should I bother fighting him on letting me meet his girlfriend before he introduces her to our son? Getting divorced. I want Ex and I to both agree that we will not introduce anyone to our son and we will introduce that person to each other prior...

He's been seeing a male prostitute for friendship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - I'm 36, and my husband's 40, we have a 15-year-old daughter. He admitted last night that he'd been going to a male prostitutes to "talk" and have a few beers, and even gave me his mobile number! My husband also said no sex was involved and tha...

We have something good, but he's married and his wife refuses to divorce him! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - I met this guy a 5 months ago. We get along well and are still getting to know each other. We have something good. Our previous relationships were painful for both of us and the things they he went through in the relationship were horrendous,...

Can I leave him or am I trapped forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - I have lived with my husband for six years. I believe that I have always relied on men in the past and have had several abusive relationships. I suffer from deep seated fears/phobias from my childhood and agoraphobia (mild now). My husband has clin...

Feeling sexually amped -- except with my wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) - I've been married for 5 years with two kids. Lately I've had little sexual attraction to my wife but I still watch porn and stuff. Lately, I've been getting hit on by female coworkers, one in particular (gorgeous). Lately, I've felt particularly ...

Flirty work colleague refuses to acknowledge my marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) - Dear all, I request your advice on my situation. In a way it is silly. I am married and very happy about family life. I have this female friend at work whom I like very much. she is 10 year younger than me and is at the age to get married. We are g...

It doesn't have to be complicated

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7 August 2013 (F) - I've been the agony aunt among the people I've known for a while. Those much older than me come to me. What would I know right? Thing is, I've always learned from the mistakes of others and gather What-Not-To-Do from that. Ever heard "A fo...

My husband is too good to divorce but we live in a 100% non sexual marriage

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

7 August 2013 (F) - My husband never hugs me, or looks at me. I don't understand him, because he says ,he loves me. He is completely non sexual with me. I feel totally deprived, and neglected. He is a nice man, he is working hard, and supportive with money.. He ...

Neighbor confessed her love to my husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

7 August 2013 (F) - I just found out my next door neighbor declared her love to my husband. She called him to make the confession. A few weeks ago I noticed they exchanged a "look" and when I stared at her, she felt uncomfortable. There have been many signs and now I ...

She knows I am married, so why be like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

6 August 2013 (M) - I am struggling with temptation right now. A good female friend of mine back from High School who moved back into town has started to become flirtatious towards me like we used to back then....I have been married for 4 years and don't have any real ...

When separated from a marriage are you considered single and free to do whatever you want?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

5 August 2013 (F) - When separated from a marriage are you considered single and able to do whatever you want to do? I am separated from my husband. Living somewhere else and not speaking. Looking to get an apartment and move on until the point divorce is possible, we ...

Married couples with a family don't take holidays apart from one another do they?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 August 2013 (F) - I wonder if anyone has any advice, or have been in a similar situation. My husband wins lots of trips abroad through work. I'm talking Las Vegas staying in top hotels and Ibiza. While the trip is paid for food and drink etc is not. My proble...

I need to get over my insecurities.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

4 August 2013 (M) - Im not sure where to start. I only had one serious girlfriend before my wife. Sure we had sex, but I was only 19, lived with my parents and she lived with hers. Our sexual activities were mostly in the backseat of my truck, with a few nights in a ...

Found my LDR Husband had considered playing around and now I can't move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 August 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for a year, separated by distance for 2 years and got married after and separated again for months now. As I opened his Facebook account because of the game we played thats why I know his password. I unin...

I'm married and don't want to be in love with another man but I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

3 August 2013 (F) - Hi all I have a huge dilemma and I desperately need help. I'm a 38-year old woman, my husband is 45 and we have been married for 10 years. My hubby is a wonderful man and we've been very happy together. A couple of years ago we began tal...

Can separation be good for a marriage? I am moving out but we both still want it to work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

2 August 2013 (F) - I've been asking for a lot of help lately, I certainly need it... I'm going through a separation right now. I'm moving out tomorrow after my marriage has seemed to have fallen apart. I'm devastated. I'm angry. I'm sad. I'm all over the place. ...