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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

The revelation of my wife's affair has ripped the trust out of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I need help from the ladies out there. How do I know if I can believe my wife will not have another affair? We are in our early 30's and have been together 8 years, married for 3 and have 3 kids (one is hers from a past relationship). ...

My wife was molested as a child and is suffering depression. Now...she hardly wants sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - My wife was touched by her dad as a child and has suffered from depression. She is on medication.She hardly wants sex anymore and I like to have sex. Every time I ask I get turned down. Whenever I try to talk to her about sex she gets very ...

How do I get my husband to be more responsible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been together 6 1/2 years. I have always been the aggressor and he likes it that way. I wear the pants in the family and he lays back and takes it. I manage the money, the bills, the decisions. I bought our car, I found our ...

He had flings with family members but I'm not allowed to confront them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - i have been split up with my husband for 10 months, we are going through a divorce. my husband has just recently confessed that he had a string of one night stands during our marrage what hurts the most is that one of them was with my brothers...

My husband wants to buy a gift for a woman he works with and I'm objecting. Am I right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I've been married for 18 yrs. My husband has been working with a woman for 3 yrs. and wants to buy her a christmas gift. Is this acceptable? (The thing is, he had an affair 8 yrs ago with a different woman he worked with). I've met this woman and ...

My wife refuses to do oral sex...what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My wife refuses to do oral on me and does not like me doing it on her. What can I do?...

My husband suspects I had an affair. Now he's always questioning me and I'm denying everything.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for sixteen years and have two children. I have been having an affair with a married man for the past two years. It has been on and off during those two years. We were friends for about seven years and it evolved into more. I ...

My wife's past is driving me crazy...what do I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - I am a married man of 6 years and have known my wife for 8 years. I love hear from the bottom of my heart, the problem is we have never spoken about our previous sexual relationships up until recently, when my wife made a comment saying that she ...

My wife had a past lover she kept a secret for eleven years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - about 3 weeks ago my wife told me she had slept with someone she had kept secret for eleven years.i knew how many people she had slept with , but why she never told me is a mystery , i think she done it while with me thats why the name was never ...

My wife doesn't want sex. Do I look elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - My wife does not want to make love any more. She does not like sex - totally uninterested and refuses help. She is happy this way. Do I look elsewhere?...

Another child or my wife will divorce me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - I am 43, my wife 41 and have been married for 13 years, have 4 kids aged 12, 7, and twins of 5 My wife wants more kids (must undergo IVF and shes happy to do so) and I think that 4 kids are enough and dont want more. She refused councelling, and...

He won't divorce me because he thinks I'm having an affair...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - my husband and i are about to recieve our decree absolute we have recieve our nisi. he is convince that i am having an affair with my brother in law. this really is not true we are good mates yes but are well aware of the consiquences of an affair ...

My husband leaves me alone while he's off hunting... is it any wonder I think about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Married, Unhappy and Wanting to be with someone else. I have been married for 2 years but we've been together for 5. My husband like to hunt (that makes me a hunter's widow to those who know my pain)and that keeps him away from home. He eats, br...

He led me on for five years, talking about a wedding that could never happen...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 5 years. We started on when I was 26 and I'm 31 yrs now. He is my first and only boyfriend. He told me me he wanted us married in November this year and that he really means it. I asked him so many times ...

My husband's contact with his ex is causing problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I am having a very difficult time deciding what to do about a certain issue I am having. My husband's old ex gf from high school continues to call him every couple of months or so just to check in on him. Early on in our relationship, I was very ...

How can I increase my sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - i am married to a lovely and understanding man but i just have no interest at all in sex and dont even get any urges to do so. i have a 5 year old child and only felt i wanted to have sex then because i wanted a baby and havent had sex since then.i ...

I had a mid-life crisis and can't shake the feeling that my wife is going to want "revenge"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - Two years ago I had the classic "mid life crisis". I became isolated from my wife and family, and began sabotaging my relationship. When my relationship with my wife broke down I considered the possibility of a relationship with a female friend of ...

He moved out due to the gambling problem, but now he doesn't want to see me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have been married almost 25 years. 21 of those being beautiful, then my husband went out of control with his gambling. In the last 4 years I have asked him to move out 3 times (this on being the 3rd). This time it is worse then the others. ...

I love my wife, but since she's cheated twice, I just don't know if I trust her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been cheated twice by my wife. We have two lovely kids aged 9 and 10. I truly love my wife but I am now not sure whether I will be able to trust her again. She says she still loves me and wants to keep the family together....

I don't want my husband to even say "hi" to another woman, because he might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I'm a 26 year old female married and have two kids. Been married for the past 3 years. When we first got married he hardely said anything that if I look good or no, once in a while! The problem is that I go crazy if I see him standing...

I want to tell my wife how much I love it when she's dressed up, but I feel weird about it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Ilove my wife's femininity. I love when she is dressed up, her perfume, clothes, boots, nylons, sexy underwear, etc. I am unable to communicate this without fear to her and am afraid she thinks I am weird. I suffered abuse as a kid and fear this unc...

I already have my suspicions about my husband and his female friend, so what happens when I have to leave them alone for a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My previous question was "Are my husband and female bartender just friends or is there something going on? This was tagged "Three's a crowd" The reader's responses were very helpful but my next question is - next summer when we go to our cabin an...

I feel like my husband's maid... or his mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My partner has never showed any affection or there has never been any romance in the relationship. He is not very thoughtful either. If I'm unwell he doesn't bother asking if I want a drink or anything. Sometimes I've known him not to even kiss me ...

Did I marry my husband too young? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for four years and have a small child. My husband is the most perfect man on earth and I am well aware of this. I just don't fancy him. I love him in the same way you might love your best friend, he is my best friend. I find ...

Can I trust what my husband tells me about his aunt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Long story, 2 quick questions. Can I trust him? And Is he cheating on me? My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years now. When I met my husband, he was living in his own house and his aunt lived with him. She has been all but disowned...

How can we stop fighting so much over financial issues? And how can we restore the spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Call me M.J. I am 35 years old. I am married. Lately, all my wife and I do is fight, especially over money. There is never enough. I want to help, but I don't have my disability yet. Is there any way for us to restore the fire in our lives? If an...

The marriage is over, but my husband won't leave!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - My husband won't leave. We have been together for ten years, only married for one. But since the wedding we have both changed. I want out of the marriage but he won't leave! We have two children: one is his and I have one from a previous relation...

Our marriage is going downhill and I want someone who wants me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - My husband does nothing but yell at me, and our marriage has constantly been going down hill for the past year. I haven't left him. I just sit here and put up with it, and not to mention he is always yelling at our kids. I would like to be with som...

I've never been attracted to my husband, and his attempt at infidelity with my best friend seems like the last straw...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I am in need of some advice as soon a possible. This is going to be long but please take the time to read my story. Let's see where do I start? I met my husband when I was 20 years old. I am currently 31. I didn't find him attractive but he was ...

How have other couples solved their problems with debt by one partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I am married. My wife is extremely money conscious and I perhaps have not been in the past. I accumulated some debt while I was young and in the early days of our relationship, before we were married, which is a real burden - not too much ...

I cheated on my husband with my half-cousin and now he tells me our affair is over!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Hello. I just dont know where to start! I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have a great 5 year old son. Earlier in the year i met up again with my half cousin that i haven't seen for years, he was really good looking!We exchange...

Our separation has turned into a marriage breakup. It's worse because we work together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - My wife of 20 years has decided to leave. First of all it was just a separation to think things over but after only 3 weeks she says it's the end. I am heart broken as I love her dearly. We both agreed we had been taking each other for granted and I ...

My husband has started ignoring me. We talked about it, but he doesn't care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for 4 years, I am 26 yrs of age and I am 4 months pregnant with my third baby. I seem to be having a lot of problems with my husband. He works long hours and I understand that he probably gets tired but it seems to be his excuse ...

My wife told me everything about the guy who sent her a drink and danced with her. She says it's nothing...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I'm suffering from jealousy. It's never happened before. As a matter of fact, it's always been the opposite. We've been married 20 years. My wife is a wonderful, beautiful lady. She is EXTREMELY attracative and gets lots of people looking a...

My husband has said he wants to wait to have sex... until we're 60!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I am 24 and my husband is 29. I promised to him that we would not have sex until we were married, as we are both virgins. Now he's saying that he doesn't want sex with me until we're in our early 60s - and I find it odd. He said to me that he me...

Trying hard to do what my husband wants in the bedroom, but I find it all a bit uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 30 year old women and inexperienced. I'm married and I have concerns. My husband wants a freak in the sheets everyday all the time maybe the least 1 a day. I know nothing to be freaky and I know he's bored with me because ...

My husband just isn't affectionate. No cuddles, no sex... I feel so unloved!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married 22 yrs. But, we have known each other since I was 13 and he was 15. We started having less and less sex about 2 yrs. ago. He was having problems keeping an erection. About 4 months ago he had to have a triple by...

My partner seems to think that just going to work is enough of a contribution to his family...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - My relationship is in serious need of repair but I just can't seem to find any way of beginning. My partner is more attracted to the computer than me. I am full time mum and housewife. My partner behaves like a teenager, believes he shouldn't have ...

I feel great about myself, but my husband's attitude makes me want to be with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

1 November 2005 (F) - I've ben married for 9 years. I had gastric bypass and lost 130 pounds. I feel great about myself. Some people say I could be a model, others are threatened by me. (I am 6 foot tall). My husband is extremely controlling, even more than he was ...

No affection any more, sex is rare and strange men are messaging my wife. But she won't even talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

1 November 2005 (M) - Ok, I've got problems with my marraige and I really need some help. I'm 25 years old and my wife is 24. We've been married for 4 1/2 years and have two children. Our sex life has been downhill since we got married, but has gotten worse in the ...